Dear Dr. Buckingham, I have a complex question for you, but you might have a simple answer. My husband walked out on me after 15 years of marriage. We knew our relationship was in trouble and we sought counseling both inside and outside the church. We are a Christian family and are grounded in our beliefs. I did not believe in divorce, but filed for divorce after my husband … [Read more...]
Help! How Can We Ever Get Past This Affair When His Mistress Is Still Stalking Us?
Dr. Buckingham, I came across one of your posts and thought you might be able to give me sound advice. I've scoured the Internet for situations similar to mine but none quite reflect what my boyfriend and I are dealing with right now. My boyfriend and I are high school sweethearts. We broke up in college, reconnected three years ago and now have a 23-month-old daughter … [Read more...]
9 Things to Think About Before Remarrying an Ex-Spouse
I am a divorcee with one son. I have been asked by people close to the situation if I would consider remarriage. It is an interesting question, especially since our son is growing up and needs the continual influence of positive males in his life, with his father leading the list. For those who may be seriously considering the possibility of reuniting with your former spouse, … [Read more...]