It’s one of the most challenging things to deal with in relationship coaching. When you have clients who continue to have the exact same issues over and over again in their relationships. Often, I find these issues continuously reoccur because of deeper issues in the couple’s or individual’s personal development. And through the years, a few things have stood out to … [Read more...]
The One Main Reason Why People Can’t Stand Your Mate
Have you ever disliked the person your family member or close friend is dating? I have been there more than once. Am I super judgmental? I don’t think so. I am, however, fiercely loyal and protective of the people I love most. If I feel like someone I love is being hurt, in anyway, by the person they are involved with, I am not happy about it and I have no interest in hiding my … [Read more...]
Have You Been Water or Gasoline in Your Marriage Conflicts?
Water vs. Gasoline is a term frequently used in my work. When asked what happens when you put gasoline on a fire, eyes usually get wide and the response is kind of like duh, the fire greatly increases. The follow up question to that one is what happens when you put water on a fire, and again the response comes with a common sense glare as everyone usually says in unison, "the … [Read more...]