We've all seen it before - a once happy couple appears solemn and distressed. We wonder what happened to the peace in their marriage. When couples experience relationship challenges, a question asked by those tasked with helping bring greater peace in their marriage might be “What is it that you want in your marriage that you are not experiencing right now?” The answer to … [Read more...]
5 Very Vital Conversations That Couples Usually Never Have—Until It’s Too Late
This past week I came across an interview with Queen Latifah, in which she discussed her new role as a caregiver to her aging mother. Latifah shared how much her life has changed since taking on this new responsibility. It was a harsh reminder that as we mature, we will face this challenge in one way or another. Unfortunately, this reality is rarely discussed in most … [Read more...]
Ask Dr. Buckingham: How Can I Determine if I am Getting Quality Time?
Dr. Buckingham, I am confused about whether or not I should move forward with marrying my fiancé. He works very long hours and does not like to miss opportunities to make money. He is a good guy, a great provider and protector, but he does not meet my emotional needs. When we are together he showers me with gifts, but I do not feel like our time together is quality. I am not … [Read more...]