Dear Dr. Buckingham, My guy friend often tells me that he is for me and has my back. Usually I am a good read of character, but for some reason I cannot figure him out. He acts a little self-centered at times so I am not sure that he is ready to be in a committed relationship. I say this because he likes to do things for and by himself. However, he is smart, has great … [Read more...]
The First Year of Marriage Does Not Have To Be The Hardest
My wife and I just completed our first year of marriage. People told us that the first year of marriage would be difficult. I never put much thought into the notion because I knew from the beginning marriage is going to require work. As long as we were willing to commit to put in the work, I knew we would be fine. Consequently, we have had a great first year of marriage! … [Read more...]
3 Ways to Support Your Spouse’s Dreams, Even If You Don’t Understand Their Vision
One of the key elements in our relationships, that we take for granted, is the ability to support each other’s dreams and goals. Being supportive of each other is often the foundation of how we build our lives together. I want to share three ways that you can can support your spouse as they execute toward their ambitious goals. 1. Encourage Them People outside of our close … [Read more...]