Remember the rules you learned in kindergarten on how to behave and treat each other? Well, I’ve put together a similar list for married folk. Below are simple tips from A to Z that will help you have a happy relationship. Always apologize when you’re wrong. It’s the mature thing to do. Be available when your spouse needs you. Don’t put him/her on the back … [Read more...]
5 Powerful Tips to Help You Stick to Your New Year Goals
At the start of every new year, many of us decide we’re going to: lose weight, start a business, write a book, quit a bad habit, improve our relationships, etc. The resolutions are endless. And we have the best of intentions. So why, then, is it that only 8% of us actually achieve our New Year’s resolutions every year? In fact, by January 15th, it’s pretty clear who’s going … [Read more...]
Start the New Year with an Organized Closet
Spring isn't the only time you should give your home a deep clean. Now that we're just a couple of days away from a brand new year it would be a great time to clear out your closet and leave the foolishness (read: clothes that don't fit, are outdated, etc.) in 2014. If you need help deciding what to keep and what to toss, check out THIS post. Go ahead, I'll wait. Okay, now … [Read more...]
How I Keep Crazy to a Minimum During the Holidays
You made it through Thanksgiving, but it's not over yet! The holiday season is still in full swing and there's still plenty of shopping, cooking and family time left in the year, but it doesn't have to be stressful. Here are some tips to save you from snatching your hair out during the holiday hustle and bustle: Travel - This is one of my biggest crazy makers (as Hubs and I … [Read more...]
3 Tips on How to Prevent a Broken Heart
Dating can be scary. Even scarier, for many, is the idea of getting your heart broken. While a broken heart may often feel like the worst thing in the world, it is very likely that time has taught you that it really isn’t the worst thing in the world. Nevertheless, who wants to go through the process of healing from one, especially when it might be preventable in the first … [Read more...]
10 Tips for Family Activities on a Budget
Times are hard financially for many. After paying for gas, groceries, mortgages and other essentials, there isn't much left to play with. A lot of families are struggling with the ability to stay within their budget and still have the financial means to take their family out for fun activities. Luckily, we came up with some tips for parents who are on a tight budget but still … [Read more...]
8 Ways To Be A Better Husband
by Valerie Wooten 1. If It Ain't Broke, Don't Fix It The same things you did to get your mate, are the same things you need to do to keep your mate. In the beginning, you might have been going to the gym on a regular basis, making sure your shoe game was tight, or spritzing on your favorite cologne. Continue doing these things. You should still want to look good for your … [Read more...]
Greet Her Like You Miss Her
One of my favorite things about coming home or going to pick up my son from school after a long day is the greeting I receive. As I walk up I can see him looking out the window and smiling in anticipation for me to open the door. Once I do, I get a loud "Mommy!" as he runs to me with open arms. This moment in my day makes me feel like all the other tomfoolery I've had to put … [Read more...]
Stop Being Married Children!
1 Corinthians 13:11 English Standard Version When I was a child, I spoke like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I gave up childish ways. As true as this scripture should be, nothing can expose the immaturity behind a grown woman or man quite like marriage. We may be able to go to work and handle conflict with sage wisdom and … [Read more...]
4 Ways to Make the Most of New Tech Gadgets
by Dr. Erica Stevens Technology has truly changed the way our children learn and play. The latest e-reader, video game or camera is likely on your child's gift list this holiday season. However, it can be a challenge determining which gadget is the best buy for your family. When investing in tech products, it's also important to look at how it can help provide a … [Read more...]
#MarriageChat Recap: Making My Marriage Stronger
Last night, we had our weekly Twitter party, #MarriageChat. The topic was "making my marriage stronger" and tweeters sounded off, letting us know what they do in their marriage to strengthen the marital bond. We got some great participation from veterans as well as newbies. We invite you to join us Wednesday evenings, 9pm-10pm EST. If you missed last night's chat, here's a … [Read more...]
Remember The Days Of “Because I Said So”?
I am one of millions of people longing for quality, family television that shows African Americans in a positive light. We aren't expecting the characters to be perfect, but we do expect them to be real, not stereotypical caricatures. Good television entertains, teaches, and inspires. The new original sitcom on BET "Reed Between the Lines" has the potential to do all those … [Read more...]
Allyson’s Ultimate Inauguration Survival Tip Guide
So you've decided to ignore the facts that it will be cold as the arctic, millions of people will be in your way and the city will be a militarized zone-- you're coming anyway. Well here are some Inaugural Do's and Don'ts and other helpful advice: This is how it will go down: President Elect Barack Obama will be sworn in as the 44th President of the United States on the West … [Read more...]
Travel Tuesday: 8 Tips For Travel
Essence magazine and Hampton Inn hotels came up with 8 tips for travel since the holiday travel season is quickly approaching. Check them out here: 1. Pack Light It's not Christmas yet, so no need to travel with bags of presents for your friends and family on this trip. Remember, many airlines charge a fee per checked bag. If possible, limit what you carry to the minimum of … [Read more...]