It’s raining. Each raindrop gently falls as though it were a small piece of the clouds, descending to the earth below. Ever so softly, the steady fall of drops whisper a melody as they splash upon their window pane. Inside, a pair of lovers, oblivious to the outside world, lie there affixed in each other’s embrace. Now that I’ve got your attention. I just described the … [Read more...]
6 Ways to Distinguish Between Love and Lust
Dear Dr. Buckingham, My name is Jerrica and I am seeking for help in my relationship. I am 21 years old and I am dating a 28 year old man with a four year old son. We have been dating for approximately 8 months. Our relationship started at my old job, he was my manager at the time. At first I did not take this relationship seriously because I did not think we would end up … [Read more...]
Do You Know What Forgiveness Really Is?
Forgiveness is not justification for inviting, permitting or rewarding continued violations, offenses or abuse. Forgiveness does not absolve you of your responsibility to honor, esteem, respect — and protect — yourself. You can let go of anger, bitterness and resentment, forgive debts and forget losses, and pardon or excuse violations and poor treatment without staying in … [Read more...]