We’re back with the fourth installment of our weekly webseries “The Bottom Line”. Relationship coaches Ayize and Aiyana Ma’at provide clear and concise relationship advice that will end with them giving you, “The Bottom Line” every Monday here on Black and Married With Kids.com. Check out this week’s episode. It won’t disappoint!
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Lamar Tyler is co-creator BlackandMarriedWithKids.com. He also is the co-producer of the films Happily Ever After: A Positive Image of Black Marriage, You Saved Me, Men Ain't Boys and Still Standing.
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Harriet says
“The agenda of the relationship…”
That’s an awesome way of putting it!
Whyte23 says
Because together “We†can achieve More of…..
Our hopes , Our dreams , Our desires
WE can GROW twice as big together than we can , grow alone.
“Absolutely phenomenal”…We love you ! “Bottom Line Dream Team”….
.-= Whyte23´s last blog ..Can your Marriage survive an “OUTâ€? =-.
Ayize says
@ Harriet & Whyte 23
Thanks for the love….this is certainly a lesson I had to learn in our relationship. While “loosing yourself to become oneself” is an ongoing process ….based on the fruits our relationship has produced I can proudly proclaim that it is DEFINITELY worth it.
.-= Ayize´s last blog ..What To Do When Your Relationship Is Through….Almost =-.
Ronnie says
Thanks Ayize and Aiyana for another great episode and providing some more food for thought for our relationships. Like Ayize, this is a lesson that I had to learn..and that I am still learning in our relationship…but working together and collaborating is really the best way to do things in a relationship. Also knowing the agenda of the relationship helps too. I think couples need to talk and actually discuss what their relationship/parenting/financial goals are and how they plan on attaining them.
.-= Ronnie´s last blog ..The Bottom Line (Episode 4- Whats Yours Is Mine, Whats Mine Is Mine!) =-.
Kellie says
Now, I think THIS is my favorite episode of “The Bottom Line.” What a crucial lesson for couples to learn!! IMO the escalating divorce rate is probably attributable to the fact that we live in a world that stresses “looking out for number one” and exist in marriages that will fail if number one is all we look out for. Until we can begin to teach young couples about the benefits of having and communicating common goals, we will likely continue moving in the wrong direction…. I pray that the Creator continues to inspire you both with a good word for couples dedicated to making their marriages work.
Aiyana says
@Kellie
Thanks for the words of encouragement Kellie. So appreciated! 🙂
.-= Aiyana´s last blog ..GOT ISSUES?…. Go Beyond The Symptoms And Get To The Source =-.
Tiya says
I love this! The ring example was on point. The ring does represent us needing to have a common goal in our marriages even though we may have different ways of reaching that goal.