This week’s the Ma’ats break down communication and talk tips that will help your marriage and relationships.
Relationship coaches Ayize and Aiyana Ma’at provide clear and concise relationship advice that will end with them giving you, “The Bottom Line” every Monday here on Black and Married With Kids.com. Check out this week’s episode below.
Talibah says
Great episode! I love the 1-1-1 process. This advice isn’t just valuable for married folk. Those of us who are trying to build conscious co-parenting relationships with our children’s other parent (along with everyone else in the World!) can benefit from your teaching, too. Thanks, for the work you do.
.-= Talibah´s last blog ..MamaSpeak: Ending My Maternal Martyrdom =-.
Ronnie says
You are so right… we do invest time in how were are going to present a message to our children.. So it makes perfect sense that we should do the same for our spouse…. “we need to take responsibility for getting our messages undertood in our relationships.” I love that …take some time to make sure that you are presenting your message correctly.
1 topic – 1 hour- 1 day ….get ready Lamar 🙂
.-= Ronnie´s last blog ..My Journey Through The Beauty Of Homebirth =-.
Tiya says
Another great topic! So many of us fail to ” take responsibility for getting our message understood”. I think the 1 hour, 1 topic 1 day exercise is a definite winner!
Andrea S. says
Starting today I’m taking responsibility to get my message understood. My mother (among other people) have told me that it’s not what I say but how I say it. I also have come to realize that sometimes my expression might be funky which will give off the wrong impression as well.
As a newlywed the 1 topic, 1 hour, 1 day is a great tool.
Awesome episode!
.-= Andrea S.´s last blog ..It’s a Social Parade! =-.
Aiyana says
@Talibah
You are so right…the 1-1-1 exercise can be used in a lot of situations…comes in handy in my house, that’s for sure! 🙂
@Ronnie, Tiya, & Andrea S.
We are all talking the “right” talk…i love it! When we take responsibility for getting our message understood and consider all of the variables that will help us do that–we not only elevate our spouse with our thoughts, words, and efforts but we elevate ourselves (in terms of strengthening and building our own patience & maturity) in the process too!
.-= Aiyana´s last blog ..When To Fight For Your Relationship =-.