“That’s my secret…I’m always angry.” Those were the words Dr. Bruce Banner said in The Avengers before transforming into Hulk, and wreaking havoc on everybody and everything in his way. My kids love that scene! Maybe you aren’t familiar with that scene from The Avengers. But perhaps you know all too well what happens to a marriage, and a family, under the control of a spouse who is always angry.
Your spouse’s inability to control his/her anger can tear you down, manipulate your marriage, and destroy the self-esteem of your children. You can have the same negative impact if you are the angry spouse. An angry spouse will wreak havoc on your marriage, your kids, and your life. He/she will bring destruction the same way Hulk does in the movies.
Once again, The Marriage Pressure Points Ministry has courageously brought a serious marriage issue to our attention through their short film, Angry. The film captures the raw and real emotion in a marriage where one spouse has major anger issues. As you watch the film, take an honest look at your marriage, and at yourself. If you can relate to this film as the angry spouse, or the victim of the angry spouse, it may be time to get help in your marriage.
BMWK – Please watch the film, Angry, below. Let us know how a marriage can be saved from the destruction of an angry spouse.
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I really aporeciate these short films. Grat job!
Where do you go from here? My spouse doesn’t want to go to counseling n says that he is not angry, it is just he way he expresses. It terrifies me n my children. They told me that if they are in trouble, they will not call on us for fear of hearing their fathers roar. That broke my heart so I begged them to tell me, to call me or speak to me n I won’t tell their dad. I just don’t want to keep things from my spouse n I am nervous cause if he finds something out n I knew it all along, he gets irate. It’s so hopeless at times. I almost left him but I love him. I really don’t know what to do other than pray.
Im sorry but if your husband is so angry that your kids are afraid then you need to stay away or leave. Do you love him more than your children? Is this worth it? Think about the permanent impact this will have on them. They will grow up to be aggressive and angry too or worse find partners that are similar to their father.
Maybe you leaving will have the adverse effect on him that will make him want to change to have his family again. Pray about it and make your decision. Put your heart at rest and use your head instead.