Men take a look into a female’s thoughts…… Housework and sexy, this is something I have heard from women through the years, but never put much focused thought to, until recently. My own husband would even say with a smile, “Why are you always trying to hug on me when I’m cleaning up?” Did he know something that I didn’t? Hum… there really is something to this. Housework and taking care of the kids are rated high in the sexy category for many women. Now if this doesn’t fit you or your mate, that’s okay. It will not fit all. Yet, it fits enough to take notice.
Men, take note too, this article may help you out in the loving department. If this is a sexy look for you, according to your wife, go for it. The benefits are three fold:
- you sharing the load around the house and settling the kids, frees her time.
- She thinks you look pretty good getting the job done.
- BONUS and now she is real happy to see you, more refreshed, and full of energy.
Is this an intentional God setup or some type of poetic justice? I can’t say, but if it works in your household. Work it!
In an earlier post, “5 Strategies to Avoid Being Too Pooped for Passion” I gave husbands and wives five strategies to remain fresh and energetic for each other. This can be added as strategy number six.
Why does housework and taking care of the kids look so sexy on your man? Here are five darn good reasons that have been shared with me through the years. I smile just thinking about it.
- It is a turn-on to see my man being secure enough in himself to do tasks that are stereo-typically thought of as a woman’s job.
- When I see him doing housework and taking care of the kids, it lets me know that he understands my needs and recognizes my desire for us to work as a team.
- As he is looking sexy, he is leading by example, making sure our home runs smoothly.
- It allows me to see a softer more tender side of my man which does something to me.
- He is showing me, “Baby I GOT THIS.”
BMWK – For sure there are more than 5 reasons housework and caring for the kids looks sexy on your man. Share some of the reasons we didn’t note, keep it rated PG. 🙂
NaConda says
It makes me proud seeing my husband help out around the house. To me, along with the other ways it makes him look sexy, it shows our children (3 daughters and 1son) that a woman isn’t the only one capable of tidying and cooking and being the caregiver. When our daughters grow old enough, I want them to know that they and their husband should be a team and there’s no better way to learn than by example. I also want our son to realize the same, and know that his wife will need his support in all areas of their marriage, not just fixing things and in the bedroom.