Conflict, disagreement and anger have the potential to wreak havoc on a relationship. When tempers flare, words are sometimes spoken that you later regret. To avoid saying things you don’t really mean, partners must learn how to disagree more effectively. Recognizing there will be ideas and behaviors in which couples won’t see eye to eye is step one. Next, is knowing it’s actually okay to disagree. It won’t end your relationship. However, the way you handle the conflict could.
A common misconception in relationship disagreements is that the other partner just needs to hear they’re right. This isn’t usually the case. We don’t always have to say “you’re right, I’m wrong” to our partners just to end the conflict. Even when we think that’s the appropriate thing to do, it still won’t necessarily generate the results we desire. There are, however, certain phrases you can use to immediately bring some calm to relationship drama.
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Superwife says
These phrases are helpful, but there are others that are not so “me” centered such as:
What can we do better the relationship?
How can we find common ground?
What is best for US going forward?
Let’s make the choice/decision that will be beneficial to the growth of the relationship in the long and the short term?
We need to think together, not the same for best solution?
Anonymous says
Superwife the article is titled “6 Phrases that Instantly Store Peace to a Relationship.” The operative word is instant peace. Nothing states making amends like taking ownership for what you’ve done. As a child I learned that sometimes you’re apologizing not because you’ve done something “wrong” but just maybe because you offended. Once the guards have withdrawn the conversation can ensue about how “We” can make the relationship better.
manulito says
Let’s talk about it.
manulito says
Let’s talk about it
Tiya says
Excellent addition to the list!
Omotola Ogun says
Very great article.
I love all the phrases…but I particularly love the 6th phrase.
Sure this will help.
Omotola Ogun says
An addition;
I believe in you and will always do.
Anonymous says
Great read…..even tho i am still single i keep these thoughts in mind for those great future times.
Frustrated wife says
What are the other 5 phrases? The link would not allow me to see the remaining 5 phrases. Let’s pray is the only I acn see
Ms Katina says
Same here. I can only see the first one. It’s not allowing me to click through the list
Cammie Simmons says
I am not able to access the other 5 phrases, can you please resend or share information
Alexis Daniels says
I cannot see the six phrases at all