Women always want to know what men really think about their wives or just women in general. We want to know all of your secrets, thoughts and feelings. So I think it’s only fair to share some of our secrets with you (men), so you know what we think and how we feel. After a great conversation with a few other wives, we agreed on the following:
- We look at other men, just like ya’ll look at other women. Just because we look doesn’t mean we are interested. We just like what we see.
- We dress to impress you. We like compliments and no, you can never give us too many.
- We like for you to be a gentleman no matter how independent we tell you we are. Opening doors never goes out of style.
- We like sex. Enough said.
- We are not always honest about our feelings, because we feel like you may not fully understand. Sometimes, we don’t know how to express to you how we feel or why we feel the way we do. Yes, we need to do better.
- We love to feel like we are the only woman in the world for you. We know you had other women before us, but we like to know that you are so glad you married us.
- We are stronger than you think, so don’t be afraid to come to us with anything. We are your help meet, let us help. No problem is too big for us to handle together.
There are more things I could share, but I just wanted to give you a few things you guys may not know. Some or maybe none of the above are some things that apply to all wives, but they apply to me.
BMWK ladies, what would you add to the list?
G. Williams says
Thank you for admitting to secret number 1. An article was written a week or two ago on how disrespectful it was for a man to look at another woman. My stance is the same as it was then…if you two can be honest with eachother about it then it shows maturity and communication within the relationship. The rest of the list is on point as well. Keep up the good work!
Latoya Irving says
No problem G. In my marriage, we know we both look at other people and we don’t get mad. Like you said, it’s all about maturity.
Eryn Shields says
Yes, we look. But, we’re much better at not getting caught! In my opinion, the disrespect comes when there’s gawking so much to the point that it’s obvious. I agree with you, to say that women don’t look-or find anyone else attractive-is unrealistic.
Latoya Irving says
Exactly Eryn!