Men are you doing your part?
Men that are in exclusive committed relationships and expect that their mate is to ONLY make love to them have to do their part to see that their expectation is met. Men, women need to be respected, reassured, and restored daily. Building trust, being sensitive, attentive, and kind are critical and necessary for a woman to be vulnerable enough to give herself freely to you.
It is imperative that you take care of her emotionally so that she can openly and loving avail herself to you physically. It is also imperative that you view her as a full partner in the relationship and work in tandem with her to make sure that the home and the kids are taken care of. Men that means you have to see beyond perceived male and female roles in the relationship. You must be open to doing whatever that frees her up to spend intimate time with you.
Actively listening to and engaging her, volunteering to wash the dishes, and helping with homework consistently yields much more than an occasional bouquet of flowers fellas. Men must remember that the man she met, fell in love with, and committed to does not go into hibernation because she willingly took herself off the market to be with you.
Seeing your mate as your gift.
Couples often forget to remember that they are a gift to their partner. Couples must always remember that they are the chosen one. They “get to” create special memories, and have joyous moments with this person they have committed to. I tell my couples that a good way to keep their perspective and appreciation for their mate in order is to remember that they are the gift that their mate desires to unwrap.
It is their mind that intrigues their mate, their dreams that their mate wants to share in, and their love that their mate wants to feel. It turns me on to no end to know that my mate can be intimate with anyone in the world but chooses and desires time and time again to be with me. It blows my mind and fills my heart to know that there are deeply intimate things about my mate that only I am privy to. It’s a privilege to be in his intimate space and he in mine. Well, I must end this article because I’m missing my gift terribly right now and I plan on remedying that immediately.
BMWK, Are you doing your part to keep intimacy and romance alive and well in your relationship? Do you see your mate as your tailor made gift that you “get to” unwrap anytime you want with the comfort of knowing you are in the safety of their love?
Carlos says
Great article, must do a better job at following/reading your articles. Must say good insight and perspective.