I wrote about my marriage and divorce journey in my first book "It's My Life and I Live Here: One Woman's Story". I lost many things, and I left the marital home with a bitter, broken heart and a two-year old. Over the years I found ways to heal from the pain of betrayal and disappointment. Here are some of what I did to continue my journey to healing. 1. I made a conscious … [Read more...]
The Power of Social Media; How It’s Changed My Life
You may have a strong desire to forge ahead in launching that dream business or project. Have you considered the power of social media networking to launch and fulfill your dreams? I started with MySpace several years ago at the suggestion of a friend. I was very skeptical because of the negative press I had heard about it. After some persuasion I thought I would give it a … [Read more...]
How to Move Out of Your Comfort Zone to Change Your Life for the Better
For some time now, I've realized that many of us (including me) are very comfortable with our lives "as is" and tend to not push ourselves to try new things or achieve new goals. There's a saying that if something isn't growing, it is dying. Because of this, I believe it is time for us to move beyond what is easy to achieve or what makes us comfortable and begin to "get … [Read more...]
5 Powerful Reasons to Get Married
Many singles (especially our ladies) dream of the day when they will walk down the aisle with their lover and friend, exchange vows before friends and family, throw an amazing reception, and drive (or fly) away to a time of seclusion and romance for a week or two. But, beautiful wedding aside, are we ready to consider why we should get married? Is there more to marriage than a … [Read more...]
8 Reasons Why Singles Rush to the Altar and 3 Ways to Make It Last
I have known of many singles over the years who rushed to get married. For some, it worked out well and they have been together for many years, but for many, rushing to marry was a disaster waiting to happen. Here are a few reasons why many singles rush to marry. They want to make things right. The couple may be living together or may have indulged in premarital sexual … [Read more...]
5 Things You Should Never Say To Singles
Many of our BMWK readers either know someone who is single or are single themselves. Today’s society seems to be more accepting of single adults than in the past where almost everyone was expected to marry at an early age. Although there is acceptance, many coupled individuals are curious about their single friends and family members. If you are married (or in a relationship) … [Read more...]
4 Things Singles Should Work on When Preparing for Marriage
We are now in a New Year, and many of us who are single may have it on our list to be in a relationship or to marry this year. This is an awesome goal to have, but are we ready for a relationship or for marriage? Here are a few things we should consider working on to ensure we are ready for a new relationship or a new marriage. 1. Become Emotionally Available There are many … [Read more...]
What to Do While Going Through the Pain of a Breakup
Whether it's the end of a marriage (as I shared in my book "It's My Life and I Live Here: One Woman's Story") or the end of a relationship, a breakup is never easy to handle. This is especially true when children are involved. So now that the breakup has happened, what do you do? First, face the painful reality that the breakup has happened. This is not an easy place to be, … [Read more...]
How to Enjoy the Holidays When You’re Single
Many of us think of the Thanksgiving, Christmas and New Year Holidays as "Family" holidays. Children who left for college return home to celebrate. Families reunite at Mom and Dad's house as the cousins and siblings exchange gifts, stories, and create warm memories to cherish. So what happens to the person who does not have a spouse (or a child) to celebrate the holidays … [Read more...]