It's the most wonderful time of the year. Well, at least for some of us. The holidays can be a dreadful time for singles, and for good reason. Why? Tis' the "cuff season" of engagements and baby announcements. For some singles, the holiday can be a depressing reminder of the fact that you're alone, causing you to have "What Do the Lonely Do At Christmas?" by The Emotions on … [Read more...]
6 Reasons Why You Should Never Ask A Couple When They Plan to Have Children
Have you ever asked a couple without children when they planned to start a family? Prior to jumping the broom, I thought this was a normal, innocent question. Surely there wasn't any harm in asking the happy couple about their "guaranteed" plans to be fruitful and multiply right? Wrong. I've officially been married for over 1 year now and to be honest the question that makes … [Read more...]
Single Ladies: How a 30-Day Man Fast Changed My Life
In February 2013, God told me not to speak to any men for an entire month. I was so confused because with the exception of family members & co-workers, I already wasn't talking to any men. I wasn't in a relationship, and I wasn't going on any dates. I wondered if this was a silly idea that popped into my head, but after a few days of hesitation, I decided to take it … [Read more...]
Transformed by the Blood – Former Stud Shakes Up the World with Her “When God Said Yes” Love Story
As Christian women, we strive to please God in every area of our lives. Sometimes though, especially with relationships, we find it difficult to distinguish the good from the bad. This can lead to heartache, pain, and sometimes, even worse choices. So, it’s a good idea to listen for God’s voice…establish His approval, if you will, when it comes to choosing a mate. In … [Read more...]
YouTube Sensation ‘Ashley Empowers’ Shares Her Love Story
As Christian women, we strive to please God in every area of our lives. Sometimes though, especially with relationships, we find it difficult to distinguish the good from the bad. This can lead to heartache, pain, and sometimes, even worse choices. So, it's a good idea to listen for God's voice...establish His approval, if you will, when it comes to choosing a mate. In … [Read more...]
2nd Wives Club – The Three #1 Reasons I Appreciate Being Wife #2
My husband was married once before. And he enjoyed a five year marriage with his first wife Geneisha. However, during their 2nd year of marriage, she was diagnosed with cancer. Three years later she won her battle and transitioned to be with our heavenly Father. In the early stages of our courtship, my husband struggled with what he thought others may think of him … [Read more...]
Singles: 11 Dates You HAVE to Do this Summer
There's no better time to be in love, than the summer. After hibernating all winter, it's time to get out and enjoy the easy living that comes along with summer. Here are 11 dates you have to do this summer: Local free events. Summer welcomes plenty of outdoor festivals, parades, and concerts. The cherry on top, is most of the time they're FREE. Of course you'll have to pay … [Read more...]
5 Fool Proof Rules for a Healthy Argument with Your Spouse
My husband and I, along with the help of my mom, came up with 5 rules for a healthy argument with your partner. Know your partner's "conflict language". Thanks to author Gary Chapman, some of us are aware of our spouses love language. However, are you aware of how your partner effectively handles conflict? Maybe they need a moment alone to refrain from saying something … [Read more...]
5 Marriage Boundaries Your Family and Friends Should Never Cross
"You need to work more hours, so you can help your husband out." I couldn't believe what I was hearing. Yes, a family member was giving me unsolicited advice about how to improve our finances. I couldn't decide if I was offended by the fact that she'd never been married a day in her life or the fact that she had no idea what my husband and I were privately doing and discussing … [Read more...]
My Husband Asked if I Was Happy in Our Marriage, I Had to Be Honest
The other day my husband asked me on a scale of 1 to 10, how happy I was in our marriage. We're coming up on our 7 month wedding anniversary and tend to check in with each other about what's working in our marriage, and what areas we can afford to improve in. It didn't take long for me to answer my husband's question. I automatically knew I couldn't give him a confident 10. … [Read more...]
6 Reasons Why You Need to Support Your Spouse’s Dreams
We all know the saying, "Behind every great man is a great woman." While this is true, I'd also like to believe that behind every great WOMAN is a great MAN. As a newlywed, I'm learning that one of the best things I can do for my husband is support his dreams. While working a 9-5, he's also diligently working towards his music aspirations. And although I've taken a liking to … [Read more...]
5 Family Lessons Fox’s ‘Empire’ is Teaching Us
I've been #TeamEmpire ever since I saw the preview trailer. Anything with Taraji P. Henson and Terrence Howard is worth my attention. Confession session: After watching the first 2 episodes, I thought Empire was a bit corny. However, the storyline continued to draw me in every Wednesday and now I officially need my Empire "fix" every week. Of course I'm tuning in to be … [Read more...]
The Biggest Thing I’ve Learned When Christian Men Break Your Heart
I couldn't believe it happened to me. My first heartbreak came from a man of God. He was actually the son of a preacher, with aspirations to lead his own flock one day. Out of all the silly, mediocre relationships I'd been in that amounted to nothing, I just knew I hit the jackpot when I started dating my man of God. I just knew we'd get married and live happily ever after. … [Read more...]
Everything Changed After My Husband Prayed This Prayer
No one ever told me how to be a wife. Of course I read a few books leading up to the wedding, and we attended marriage counseling, but how to actually BE a wife was never discussed. Obviously, I was encouraged to be supportive, willing to compromise, etc. But how do you BE a wife? I've been married for 5 months, and I believe the first 2 months I wondered if I was doing this … [Read more...]
10 Things that Dramatically Changed After I Got Married
Hello beautiful people! I hope everyone is doing well, and being disciplined with their New Year's resolutions. We have at least one more week, until we fall off. Just kidding :). Well, I've been married for a little over 4 months now. I don't know why, but it feels like Stevie and I have been together forever. I literally can't see myself without him, ever. And whenever I … [Read more...]