How often do we take our loved ones for granted? It’s human nature to grow accustomed to how things are and become comfortable. But in doing so, we can let pettiness and small insults fester. We harbor resentments and hold our apologies, all because we know there will be time to resolve the situation later.
“I’ll show my appreciation another time,” we tell ourselves. “They know I love them,” we reason. “I can be difficult but they understand,” we rationalize.
Would we act the same way if we knew today would be the last day on earth we’d spend with them?
Take a second to imagine life without that special someone. It changes your perspective completely. Suddenly, the small things you’ve obsessed over or fought about look petty and trivial.
Life is fragile. None of us is guaranteed a tomorrow. Live like today will be the last you have with your spouse, and then thank God when you’re granted another.
Try these tips:
- Call them, right now, and tell them you love them. Save that Word document, log off Facebook, and go have a 5-minute chat to tell your spouse that you love and appreciate what they’ve brought to your life.
- Pick up flowers on the way home (ladies, you can do this too!) for no other reason than “I’m happy to be married to you.”
- Pick up dinner on the way home and eat it on the floor, picnic style.
- Fall asleep in each other’s arms.
How is the challenge going so far, BMWK family? Has anyone seen a difference in their relationship?
Sweets_mel says
Will accept challenge…engaging now…lol
Sweets_mel says
Will accept challenge…engaging now…lol
Rhonda J. Smith says
The Be a Better Spouse Challenge has been great, helping me to be more mindful to appreciate my hubby even when I’m not engaging in a specific challenge. Thanks for taking the time encourage us to keep our marriages strong.