2020 was the year that caused us to get creative in how we celebrated life. From milestone birthdays to wedding anniversaries, people had to think outside the box on ways to still make these life events special and memorable. Honoring these moments, especially a wedding anniversary, shouldn’t be put on pause until the world opens up again. Love is our greatest gift and is … [Read more...]
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A Convenient, Kid-Friendly Way to Squeeze in a Black History Lesson
We are right in the thick of Black History Month and there's so much left to learn. There's still plenty of time to celebrate your history and get your children in on the fun. But, you don’t have to pack up the kids and rush to the nearest museum this weekend for your requisite family Black History Month lesson. A Convenient, Kid-Friendly Way to Squeeze in a Black History … [Read more...]
28 Black History Lessons for Both You and Your Kids
Black History Month is here at last! With Cory Booker and Kamala Harris announcing their bid for the presidency in 2020, African Americans have a lot to look forward to in the next 20 months. But the significance of their run would be lost if we don't heed the Black History lessons of the past. We've pulled together 28 Black History Lessons (activities and resources) that … [Read more...]
15 Cute Last-Minute Couple Halloween Costumes
Need fun ideas for couple Halloween costumes? The spookiest holiday of the year is right around the corner and if you don't have a costume to wear with your partner yet, here are some of the best Halloween couple costumes you can prepare last-minute. Look Adorable in These Last-Minute Couple Halloween Costumes 1. Mr. and Mrs. Potato … [Read more...]
Matching Tattoos For Couples…Is It A Do Or A Don’t?
Are couple tattoos indicative of true love or just a silly phase of infatuation? Getting inked is something you need to think about over and over again. It's permanent art on your body, which means that it should mean something special for you to wear it every day of your life. Let's talk about the pros and cons of matching him and her tattoos and what design you can start … [Read more...]
10 Best Book Picks For Black Women To Read About Self-Love, Money, And Career
I love books, and I'm always on the hunt for the best self-improvement books. Despite all of the things that pull my attention on any given day, I make it my business to DEAR (Drop Everything And Read) at least two times a day. I get my reading fix in during my hour commute to work and my hour and fifteen commute from work. That said, here are some of the best self-improvement … [Read more...]
4 Easy Things You Can Do To Make Your Family Unit Stronger
What are your family goals? While there are different types of family goals, at the end of the day, we all want the same thing. We want our families to be happy, healthy, and strong. Also, we want to strengthen our unions (which is what you find yourself on this site), and we want to be the best possible parents. Here are a few tips you can try. My hope is this list of family … [Read more...]
What’s the Common Health Issue That Can Ruin Your Marriage If Ignored?
by Dr. Jeff B. Brown (www.jeffreybrownmd.com/) As an African American internist, author, and patient educator, I'm on a mission to help people take charge of a health issue that's greatly affecting their lives. I've seen firsthand how many people here in America lack the knowledge about current health issues. These facts can not only inform you about the state of your health … [Read more...]
3 Online Dating Tips When He Goes From Trying To Holla To Harassment
Ladies, if you've been checking out online dating sites recently, you must familiarize yourselves with some important online dating tips. Doing this will not just help you learn the online dating rules etiquette, but it'll also protect you from men who would want more from you. "I sent you three emails. You can't even say hi, huh? You wouldn't be able to recognize a good man … [Read more...]
7 Parties To Have Before And After Your Wedding
You’re engaged, and now it’s time for wedding parties! There are several parties you'll attend apart from the wedding. The parties are designed so you can spend quality time with your friends and family before and after your wedding. I included different ideas beyond the traditional showers and parties in the list below. Wedding Parties | Celebrations to Attend Once … [Read more...]
7 Instagram Feeds to Follow If You Love Black Men With Style
The other day, I overheard a woman say the most interesting thing, “I think the black men style is the best.” Being that she was not of the black race, the comment was really surprising to hear and completely true, in my humble opinion. I will admit that my perspective is not objective (I am married to a wonderful fashion conscience man), but we all know that black men style … [Read more...]
The Pursuit of Sexyness | Why Men Should Appreciate the Full Beauty of a Woman
I'm aware of the misspelling (sexiness) and intentionally spelled it as sexyness. Hopefully, you caught why I spelled it that way. But, in case you missed it, it’s a play on the title of the hit film and book of the same name, “The Pursuit of Happyness.” Here, I will talk about the full beauty of a woman men should appreciate. Why Men Should Value A Woman's Sexyness In this … [Read more...]
Don’t Judge Me: 3 Things I Find Oddly Satisfying About Spring Cleaning
There is nothing more satisfying than being in a clean home, except, maybe, being in a clean home during the spring season. And since I received a Clorox® spring cleaning kit in the mail yesterday, I am looking forward to getting started with my spring cleaning early this year. Don’t Judge Me Don’t judge me, but my home is just not as clean as it used to be. It’s not that … [Read more...]
How to Keep Your Black Kids Self-Aware in a World that Reflects the Opposite
I live and work overseas most of the time, sometimes in places where the African (and specifically the African-American diaspora) is sparse. And this can pose a challenge when trying to raise the next generation of conscious black children. For example, we are currently living in a Latin American country where the “Afro” community is extremely small and confined to disparate … [Read more...]
Here’s Why It’s Okay to Take Time for Yourself
We are all busy people and this is a busy world. We are mothers, fathers, parents, sisters, brothers, cousins, grandchildren, professionals, friends, and so many other roles. We make time for the people and things that matter most to us and often at the expense of ourselves and our personal priorities. Now in an era where self-care is critical to your peace of mind, … [Read more...]