My husband was married once before. And he enjoyed a five year marriage with his first wife Geneisha. However, during their 2nd year of marriage, she was diagnosed with cancer. Three years later she won her battle and transitioned to be with our heavenly Father. In the early stages of our courtship, my husband struggled with what he thought others may think of him … [Read more...]
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The 3 People Your Health Impacts No Matter Your Weight Amount
III John 1:2 Beloved, I pray that you may prosper in all things and be in health, just as your soul prospers. One of the realities of life is your body’s metabolism slows down the older you get. Before, you could possibly get away with eating fast food a few times a week, or ice cream every night before you went to sleep. This will not last forever because your metabolism … [Read more...]
What Black Families Need to Know About Liberal Arts Colleges
Guest Author: Zahida Sherman Liberal arts colleges are hidden gems for Black students, though most Black families don’t know it. Only 3% of American students will apply to liberal arts colleges, and the figure is even lower for Black students. And yet, with all the anxiety about how to pay for a college education in an unstable fluctuating economy, liberal arts colleges … [Read more...]
Life is About this One Thing, and the Sooner You Realize It the Better Your Life Will Be
The older I get the more I realize that humans share many more similarities than differences. And no matter who you are, you're struggling with something today. None of us are coasting through life unimpeded on an express path to our most ambitious goals. And if you are, hit me up below so we can talk. We struggle because we're human. We struggle because we were raised by … [Read more...]
4 Questions to Ask Yourself When You Are Considering Leaving Your Current Job
You have been at a job for a few years and you are beginning to get restless. So, you throw your hat in the ring and apply for a few jobs that pique your interest. You go through the interview process, slay it, and are extended offers from all the potential employers. You tell your friends and family, but they seem more excited about the prospects than you. You ask … [Read more...]
Here are 3 Things I Learned When I Left My Husband and Flew to London Alone
When I told my friends that I would be traveling to London by myself for vacation, they looked at me with the sideeye. The brave ones inquired as to why my husband wasn't going with me. I honestly think that they were worried about the state of my marriage. They thought that flying solo (literally) was a red flag that I was on the brink of separation. There was nothing … [Read more...]
A Mother’s Day Gift Guide for the Techy, Crafty, Bossy, Entrepreneur, WannaBe, Music Loving Mother
Every year, we all think about what we should get to express our love and appreciation to the mothers in our lives. Maybe you are in search of a gift for your own mom, or maybe you are looking for something your wife will love. Whatever the case, I know that getting the perfect gift, without dealing with any stress, is what we all want. We want to make the mothers in our lives … [Read more...]
The Cost of Infertility and Why African American Women Suffer in Silence
By Toni Husbands 1 in 8 couples or 7.3 million women experience primary or secondary infertility in this country. My husband and I tried for 9 years before successfully expanding our family. As a 29-year old member of a very large extended family and a small, yet “fruitful”, church – infertility was unexpected and hit like a ton of bricks. I struggled constantly to remain … [Read more...]
[Video] A Ohio Woman Finds Out Her Co-Worker is Her Biological Mom
For years, 38-year-old La-Sonya Mitchell-Clark of Youngstown, Ohio longed to meet her biological mother after learning of her adoption, according to ABC’s Good Morning America. [youtube id="1dXz69AIVSM"] So when the Ohio Department of Health released birth records last month for infants born between Jan. 1, 1964 and Sept. 18, 1996, she began her search in a heartrending … [Read more...]
11 Genius Time and Money Saving Fashion Tricks
Stains and rips and runs oh my! We've all had our fair share of fashion emergencies but never fear, The Style Medic is here! I'm going to arm you with some genius tips and tricks to keep you looking pulled together during even the worst wardrobe malfunction. 1. Remove deodorant 'stripes' from your shirt by rubbing with a dryer sheet or pantyhose. 2. Remove yellow stains … [Read more...]
8 Things Not to Do in a Job Interview
Going on job interviews can be a nerve shredding experience. You want to impress the interviewer with your skills and personality and secure the position without being too "salesy". There's a lot at stake and it can make even the most calm, cool and collected person pretty nervous. As an HR professional (and someone who’s conducted lots of interviews), I've found that one of … [Read more...]
Fun Flats for a Day in the Park or a Night on the Town
Who would have ever thought flats would become such a wardrobe staple for both day and night? Ever since the simple ballet shoe burst on the scene as your go to alternative to heels for work, flat shoe options have gone from good enough to wear from the train to the office, to good enough to wear from the office to Happy Hour. With the addition of embellishments, luxe … [Read more...]
5 Simple Changes that Will Perk Up Your Home Just in Time for Spring
As we blister through March and on to oh so beautiful April, my mind inevitably shifts into cleaning mode. I'm not sure if everyone participates in Spring cleaning, but I am a dedicated subscriber. There is nothing better than opening all the windows to let fresh air waft through our home while I sort through the closets and clean the pantry. It is the one time of year I let my … [Read more...]
6 Ways Couples Can Work Together to Prevent Colon Cancer
March is Colorectal Cancer Awareness Month. This cancer is preventable if you as a couple take care of each other. Communication is very important in a relationship. Husbands and wives need to tell their spouse if they notice any of the risk factors for colon cancer. If you have a family history of colorectal cancer, let your spouse know so that you two can collectively make … [Read more...]
10 Tips to Deep Clean Your Home Without Losing Your Mind
With Spring just around the corner (thank goodness) we’re all busy getting our wardrobes, cars and homes ready for the break in weather. If you’re the designated spring cleaner in your house (I know I am) then you probably aren’t looking forward to the task of getting your home in shape. Well, don’t fret! It doesn’t have to be a headache. Here are 10 tips to deep clean your … [Read more...]