What motivated you to create the “Still Dating My Spouse” (SDMS) movement?

We were part of a ning group and the group folded. However, we understood the importance of this ministry. We continued the mission of helping couples to implement regular date nights.

What is the mission that you are hoping to create?

“To date your spouse is to know your spouse” Our mission is to encourage couples to implement regular date nights that fit into their lifestyle.

What are some of the challenges that you’ve dealt with in dating each other and how have you overcome them?

As with any couple, we have faced the challenges of time, money, and family. We have made it our mission to date weekly regardless of what is thrown at us. So as to time, we don’t specify a certain time to date. It may be beneficial this week to date on a Tuesday morning at 4am or Saturday afternoon at 3pm. So regardless, we will have a date night/day/afternoon. We NEVER allow money to stop us from dating. What a lot of couples fail to realize is that dating your spouse is not synonymous with money.

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