What advice do you have for couples who are struggling to make dating a priority?

I ask them if their marriage is top priority. If the answer is yes, then make the time to date your spouse. If you must start off scheduling a date night, then so be it. Your date night schedule will not look like another couple’s date night schedule, so schedule the dates that fit into your own lifestyle.

What are three things that couples can implement into their own marriages to make sure they continue to date their spouse?

1. Flexibility: Be flexible in the time and days that you date. Don’t get so hung up on a time/day of the week that you miss the opportunity to date your spouse.
2. Creativity: Think outside of the box! Keep dating interesting and exciting for you and your spouse.
3. Determination:  A car needs regular maintenance to operate correctly. In the same manner, a marriage needs regular maintenance (date nights/quality time) to operate correctly.  So be determined to have regular date nights with your spouse.

How can people stay connected and learn how to incorporate daily dates into their own marriage and lifestyle?

You can connect with us through all of our social media platforms by visiting our website at www.StillDatingMySpouse.com, as well as connecting on Twitter and Facebook.

Thank you Stephon and Pamela for taking time out to chat with us and for proving that you can incorporate regular dates into our own marriages.

BMWK: How often do you date your spouse? If not often, what are some things you can do to change that after hearing advice from Stephon and Pamela?