Has your spouse ever come home and unleashed their work related stress on you? It usually looks like them complaining, being extremely irritated by everything you say or do, being really snappy, maybe not eating, or even going to bed early. It typically leaves you wondering what the hell did you do to deserve that type of treatment.
As hard as it might be, don’t take your spouse’s work related stress personal. When they have that type of frustration, it is easy to take it out on those closest to them. We take for granted that they love us enough to just accept our bad behavior.
Work stress is usually the worst because we can’t respond the way we really want at work, so the natural point of release is usually in our homes, with our spouse. There are, however, some ways to help your spouse relieve the work related stress while igniting your marriage at the same time.
A massage of the temple, shoulder or back using lavender oils will definitely help your partner relax and bring them back to a sense of calm.
A foot rub and soak is the perfect way to remind your partner that you support him/her. Having a warm sudsy foot soak ready is a great way to end an otherwise rough day.
A hot bubble bath with you inside will also do the trick. Can you imagine your spouse returning home to dim lights, a tub full of steamy bubbles and you naked and waiting to bathe them? I guarantee they’ll quickly forget everything else that happened that day.
Having your spouse’s favorite sexy tune playing in the background is another way to take their mind someplace else. You can’t go wrong with the Isley Brothers or the O’Jays.
Surprise your spouse with some nakedness. Just being naked anywhere in the home, when your spouse returns, is not only sexy, but it helps to immediately erase the memory of a sucky work day.
Kiss, suck or nibble on something. Giving the neck, chest (or any other body part you choose) a little special attention will make anyone forget about whatever else is going on in the world.
A change in the scenery changes the mood. Turning down the lights, having some candles lit, with a few rose petals spread throughout your space will also ease the tension and begin the process of restoring that sense of peace. Creating a space where even stress feels uncomfortable, is great for your marriage.
Remember, the work related stress your spouse is bringing home isn’t personal. Instead of being bothered by it, why not help your partner unwind, relax and leave that work stress exactly where it belongs, at work.
BMWK, in what ways do you help your spouse relieve stress?
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