Whether you’re on the dating scene or married, this writer gives you six tips to find your swag between the sheets…
I have the utmost respect for the men and women who commit to celibacy before matrimony, but I have no intentions of saving myself for marriage. Quickly approaching my prime, I am less than seven months away from the most sexually gratifying years of my life, my thirties..and, relationship or not, married or not, I plan to slay.
Past the age where sexual experiences are limited by moral condemnation, poor body image, clumsiness or inexperience, body counts, and/or the belief that sex is more about providing sexual pleasure than receiving, being inhibited by any of these factors is just not an option.
I refuse to be condemned for owning my satisfaction. I have every intention of strolling into my thirties, sexually self-assured and totally unashamed. Whether you be male or female, monogamous or engaging in a friends with benefits arrangement, or preserving your freak for that special someone, building your sexual confidence should be a priority.
Here are some tips for discovering and dominating your sexual energy.
1) Pretty young thang…
For a few years of my mid twenties, I refused to look at my high school pictures. Shortly after giving birth to my daughter, gravity grabbed hold of my body and showed my figure no mercy. The cellulite craters got deeper. I had stretch marks plastered across my once flawless stomach and nursing caused the type of drooping one does not expect to see until old age. Let me tell you, nothing kills a sex life like a person who is insecure about their body.
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