Tall, dark, and handsome. . .where did that come from? Not all women desire that kind of man. We do have preferences when it comes to physical features. However, what I have learned is that when God chooses your spouse for you, he can make you fall in love with a person you never imagined you’d desire. The kind of man that makes your heart flutter or makes you want to look and act all feminine has less to do with appearance and more to do with character.
My kind of man isn’t on television, isn’t in the movies, isn’t in a rap song or on the cover of a magazine. By the grace of God, he’s in my house, just a few seconds from receiving a soothing touch, an encouraging word, or anything else I feel led to give him. And, I don’t mind at all because my kind of man would do the same for me.
So, what kind of man am I talking about if I am not referring to physical features? Check this out:
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BMWK, what are characteristics that describe your kind of man or woman?
Only the young, the silly, and the foolish cling to media-induced stereotypes about what constitutes the right kind of man or woman. Funny, our grandparents, great grandparents and some of our parents appeared to value character and integrity over superficial traits and they usually married (happily) for life. We focus on artificial qualities and then wonder why we struggle to understand and fulfill the purpose of marriage. My husband is what God knew I had prayed and waited for and my job is to be the woman that God provided to him to be his help-meet. Any other mindset is unfruitful.
Thanks for reading and sharing.
Great article. I am currently single but am working on myself so that when Mr. Right does come we will both be all that we could ever want or need in each other, although it’s definitely not an easy task.
Glad you liked the article Stephanie.
Thank you so much for this article. It is confirmation to what was in my heart on last night and yesterday. I am in total shock because you said some of the same exact things God was telling me. For a moment I got stuck on how he looks, but his heart; pure, true, honest, love God to the utmost. I decided, who cares about the outside, that can be fixed, but a heart like that, can only be given by God. David did wrong things, but his heart…
It’s not about looks, it’s the heart of him that’s important, his love for God, as God loves each of us.
Thank you so much for this article, it really blessed my heart. As I said, it’s confirmation. Blessed the Lord, Glory to God.
Awesome. Praising with you MM.
This article is wonderful and so very true. Thank you.
Thank you for reading.
Thank you! I love this article. Glad to hear such encouraging words. I’m blessed to say I found “my kind of man” and I thank God for him. My husband is much more than I could imagine and life with him is so much more exciting.
What a blessing!!! Thanks for sharing that.
I recall meeting my wife in the middle of an absolutely embarrassing moment. We were invite
Thank you for those insightful words of what to look for in a partner. It just open up my eyes to the kind of man I should really be seeking.