Being in a committed relationship is a want. It’s not a need or something we have to do. We have to make a choice to want to be committed to another person. So how do you handle it when you want a commitment, but your "good man" is dragging his feet on making that choice? Here is an example of a good man who was commitment adverse and how to deal with a good man who won’t … [Read more...]
How to Tell if Your Mr.Right is Really Your Mr.Wrong
Who is “Mr. Right” and what exactly does he look like? His description will vary from one woman to the next as each woman has her own personalized list of requirements for the elusive Mr. Right. Many women literally have a written detailed list of requirements that make up Mr. Right which is not a bad idea at all provided that list is reasonable. It might be helpful to see … [Read more...]
These 5 Qualities Could Mean Your Man’s a Keeper
There are so many losers out there. How do I know? Well, thankfully it’s not because I married one. I know because I’ve dated a few in the past and I have heard more than enough stories from friends and family to know that you’ll run into a loser at every turn if you aren’t careful. But for all the losers floating around, there are also a ton of great men. I know that for … [Read more...]
Are “Good Men” The Exception and “Bad Boys” The Rule?
"Good men are not the exception. They are simply the other choice." A year ago, I posted the above quote on my Facebook page as a result of a particular framing of questions that overwhelm social media and even have found their way into my private space through female friends. I'm sure you've seen if not asked the following questions yourself: "Why do men cheat?", "Why is … [Read more...]
10 Reasons You’re Trying to Run from a Good Man
Earlier this year I wrote an article called, “10 Reasons I Knew He Was The One.” It resonated with a lot of people, but one comment got me thinking. The comment below made me think of how many men and women can’t find the one because they are too busy running away from him or her. Before you tell me that I’m crazy, read the comment below then discover my ten reasons you’re … [Read more...]
My Kind of Man
Tall, dark, and handsome. . .where did that come from? Not all women desire that kind of man. We do have preferences when it comes to physical features. However, what I have learned is that when God chooses your spouse for you, he can make you fall in love with a person you never imagined you'd desire. The kind of man that makes your heart flutter or makes you want to look and … [Read more...]