When you got married, the minister may have decreed this statement, “…in sickness or in health, till death due you part.” But what if your marriage is actually causing your sickness? By studying short spats between couples researchers can predict the development of health problems over 20 years. Well, did you know heated arguments with your spouse can predict your future … [Read more...]
3 Reasons Why Arguing With Your Spouse Can Be a Good Thing
Some people hear the word "argument" and immediately think of a nasty fight. I don’t. I think an argument is merely a difference in opinion. Sure, it can get pretty nasty if people decide to take it there, but it doesn’t need to. If you keep your anger and frustration in check, an argument is just a healthy exchange that happens from time to time. I don’t argue with my … [Read more...]
3 Truths He Wants to Tell You but May Not Know How
There are truths your mate wants to share with you but doesn't know how. Some conversations are easy, while others are hard to have. When it comes to things that he doesn't know how to tell you, he may be struggling for words that will be well received. If he can't find the words, he may avoid the conversation all together. He doesn't want to upset you, doesn't want to be … [Read more...]
Is the Need to Be Right Ruining Your Marriage?
I don’t mind being wrong. I know, you probably think I am lying, but really, I don’t mind at all. What I do mind is talking to people who will go to their grave swearing they are right about something when, as far as I see things, they are dead wrong. The problem is, who makes the determination about what’s right and wrong in your marriage? Even if you swear you are right, … [Read more...]
2 Wrongs Do Not Make a Right: Tips for Better Communication
I know you have probably heard this question before, “Do 2 Wrongs Make a Right?” The answer is emphatically no! When you have two wrongs you simply have two wrongs. The is especially true when it comes to disagreements or should I say arguing. When you find disagreements and arguments creeping up as a part of your life, take a step back and assess the situation. Yes, assess … [Read more...]
12 of the Dumbest Fights Couples Can Have About Nothing
Slammed doors, raised voices and long disagreements that carry on for hours. Any of this sound familiar? Conflict is a natural and inevitable part of marriage. There’s simply no way to avoid an occasional disagreement when you co-exist with the same person every day. Conflict scenarios vary from really serious things, like not paying bills on time, to the pettiest of petty … [Read more...]