Dear Dr. Buckingham, My husband and I went on a trip so that we could enjoy each other and spend some quality time together. He asked me to look at something on his cell phone while he was holding it. I noticed that he could not hold the phone steady. As I looked up, I noticed that he was not looking at the phone. I saw him looking at a woman. When I asked what he was … [Read more...]
Stop Fantasizing about Others While Making Love to Your Spouse
I am always hopeful for couples who reach out to me by asking questions or scheduling appointments for couple’s coaching. It’s a definite sign the relationship is a priority and their desire is to make it work. I recently received an interesting, but also honest question from someone who was beginning to lose the attraction for their spouse. The fact they even cared about … [Read more...]