"The idea of marriage terrifies me" she exclaimed. When I asked her why she said, "Because men are so dominant and condescending. It's like they strip a woman of herself for their benefit. I hear so many of my married friends complaining. None of them are happy." I was surprised at this sister's comments because most of the women I work with are concerned about finding a man … [Read more...]
Can Being “Too Independent” Leave a Woman Looking for Love?
Dear Dr. Buckingham, I am having a hard time bonding with men who are good to me and cater to me. I have been single for most of my adult life and I have been told that men find it difficult to relate to me because I come across as being too independent. As a single woman who has made my way in life, I do not rely on or expect men to do much for me. I own my car, pay my own … [Read more...]
Men Can Be “Too Independent” Too
A while back I wrote an article on my site titled “Independent Woman Syndrome” and it got a lot of attention. It spoke on women needing to learn how to balance their independence once in a relationship. Many agreed, and some took offense. At the end of the day I stand by it. You can refuse to understand or receive the message as it was intended, but it does not change the … [Read more...]