Dear Dr. Buckingham, My guy friend often tells me that he is for me and has my back. Usually I am a good read of character, but for some reason I cannot figure him out. He acts a little self-centered at times so I am not sure that he is ready to be in a committed relationship. I say this because he likes to do things for and by himself. However, he is smart, has great … [Read more...]
Good Spouse, Bad Spouse and How to Tell the Difference
Every marriage is different, but the requirements for being a good spouse are universal. It’s easy to say we’re doing our best in marriage but the evidence is how our spouse feels. It seems there is always room for improvement. We may never be the perfect spouse, and that really isn't even the goal. Knowing we put forth our greatest effort in the majority of situations, … [Read more...]