The decision to get married is one of the most important decisions you will make in your entire life. Don’t you agree? I do. It was a decision I made with great care, and I am so grateful that after almost eight years, I still feel like I married the right guy. But as important as that decision was, I can’t sit here and tell you that it’s the most important decision I have … [Read more...]
Are “Good Men” The Exception and “Bad Boys” The Rule?
"Good men are not the exception. They are simply the other choice." A year ago, I posted the above quote on my Facebook page as a result of a particular framing of questions that overwhelm social media and even have found their way into my private space through female friends. I'm sure you've seen if not asked the following questions yourself: "Why do men cheat?", "Why is … [Read more...]
5 Ways to Move on When He Has Chosen Another
As a woman, maybe you've been there, maybe you haven't. But occasionally some of us have experienced the rejection of having a man choose another woman instead of you. Sometimes he may choose her as his girlfriend and sometimes he may choose her as his wife. Either way, it wasn't you and his selection has been made clear. So there you are left to wonder why. Why did he … [Read more...]
Second Chances: Will My Cheating Man Be Faithful this Time?
Can a man change for the woman he claims to love? If a woman finds out her man is talking inappropriately to a coworker and she tells him to stop, but later catches him emailing the same woman, "I love you." He says he 'messed up.' He apologizes and says he doesn't want the other woman. She takes him back, only to find out months later that not only is he still talking to her, … [Read more...]