Is control the dominant force driving your romantic relationships, friendships or business partnerships? If so, fear is alive and well in your relationships. People create defense mechanisms, which manifest themselves as control issues or tactics because they fear losing someone or something they value. Control is not at all about the person being controlled. It is, however, … [Read more...]
Why I Let God Control My Love Story
Over the weekend I had the opportunity to share some words of wisdom and advice to girls age 12-20 about not forcing love, friendships and relationships. The main takeaway was in the form of a Mad Libs activity. I let the girls fill out the first page, which asked for any noun, adjective, name, etc. that came to their minds. The second page, which most didn’t look at, was the … [Read more...]
Are You in a Power Struggle in Your Marriage?
by Reginald Williams Power struggles within marriages served as the spirit that gripped many of the client/couples my wife and I counseled with in the most recent weeks. We even had one husband recently uttered the "S" word "“ you know sub, sub, sub, submission "“ ok I said it. Wondering what spores where transmitting through the universe to cause such a power-based … [Read more...]