Fellas, fellas, fellas. Can we talk? I'm privy to a lot of the conversations you have about your frustrations with the ladies, especially your thoughts about the ladies who say there are no good men out there. Because as a matchmaker, men tell me all their secrets on a regular basis. (Ok, not all of their man secrets, but enough to get their player's card pulled!) I also … [Read more...]
3 Mistakes Nice Guys Make on a Date That Land Them in the Friend Zone
As a matchmaker, part of my job is to collect feedback after I send a couple out on a date. I'll ask each person to give me their honest opinion and impressions of the location of their meeting, the confidence level of their date, and whether they felt any physical attraction for he other person. I'm often shocked at the small mistakes men make on a date, which can make the … [Read more...]
Fellas, Michelle Obama Wants You To “Be Better” At Relationships And Here’s Your 3-Step Plan
The White House recently hosted The United States of Women Summit, where 5,000 women (and men) gathered together to discuss the most pressing issues facing women today. The highlight of the event was when Oprah interviewed First Lady of the United States of America, Michelle Obama. They began their conversation talking about the importance of self-worth. And at one point, it … [Read more...]
3 Reasons Why a Man Shouldn’t Chase After a Woman
"Men are supposed to be the hunters" is what a lot of people will say. According to these people, it is your job as a man to initiate the pursuit of a woman, and to put in maximum effort to show her you want her. To some extent, I completely understand that perception. But it can reach a point where it becomes flawed. A man should definitely be willing to do his part in the … [Read more...]
The 7-Step Love Detox Challenge that will Transform Your Dating Life
With Spring just around the corner it's a good time to detox your love life. Why? Because your thoughts are getting in the way of you attracting and keeping love. Your thoughts shape your feelings which in turn, control your behaviors and actions. As Proverbs 4:23 says, "Be careful how you think; your life is shaped by your thoughts." (GNT) So let's identify 7 areas where some … [Read more...]
5 Mistakes Men Make With Dating
Has it been a struggle to make progress with the women you're interested in? Have you found yourself feeling like you just can't seem to get things right with dating or finding a "good woman"? It can be tough dating, but with some self reflection you can start seeing things improve. As easy as it is to simply say the issue is the women, the reality is that there are typically … [Read more...]