Shhhhhh…. fellas don’t tell the ladies that I shared this with you but I’m letting the secret out. One privilege I have as a relationship coach is that I get to hear the most common issues that many ladies have with their men. Before you get all defensive and think this is going to be a bash the man session hear me out. I spend a lot of my time trying to help women … [Read more...]
Couples…If You’re Going to Fight, Here Are 3 Ways to Do It Fairly
As a Relationship Life Coach, I've seen communication problems lying just beneath the surface of the relationship problems of every couple I’ve ever worked. Couples come to me hoping that I can fix their problem and save their relationship. Some of the problems couples share with me are: “She cheated on me" "I can’t trust her anymore" "he is totally irresponsible … [Read more...]
5 Steps to Having Safety Zone Conversations with Your Mate
Unrealistic expectations, lack of commitment, insurmountable financial debt, and abuse are only a few issues that millions of couples encounter during the course of their relationship. These common yet devastating issues are all symptoms that mask the real cause of why relationships fail. Couples often wonder; what is the secret to maintaining a successful relationship. The … [Read more...]
5 Ways to Appropriately Talk to Your Spouse and Nagging Isn’t One
Do you ever find yourself making the same requests of your spouse with little result? You may be wondering do they hear me, are they paying attention, or does what I say even matter to them? All of these questions leave you feeling frustrated, confused and downright angry. Those feelings then lead to your shutting down, yelling or even a long-term disconnect in your … [Read more...]