In order for your marriage to stand the test of time, you have to be able to communicate your needs, frustrations, desires, and so much more. Without communication, your marriage inevitably suffers. Effective communication is the cornerstone of a happy marriage. But what some people fail to realize is that it’s not just a matter of communicating. Even if you talk to your … [Read more...]
Communication in Marriage: 4 Signs You and Your Spouse are Finally Maturing
Okay let’s be honest…if you’re with someone for any extended period an argument or two is inevitable. Sometimes the smallest things just turn into WWII for no reason. Emotions get high, things are said that shouldn’t be, and then a week later you’re still mad at each other. Let’s just say my wife and I had a little spat yesterday. But as I look back at it, I realized how far … [Read more...]
When Should a Married Couple Seek Help for Their Communication Problems?
Sex, money, and communication: We often hear about these as the “big three” behind marital conflicts and failures. Sex is the one we talk about most often, with problems in the bedroom and infidelity being at the center of most discussions about marital problems. Money is a distant, but growing, second. Financial infidelity is an increasingly important topic. Men and women are … [Read more...]
The One Thing You MUST Have If You Want Good Communication with Your Spouse… No Exceptions
There is one thing that needs to be present before you can even begin having or improving communication with your spouse - honesty. And not only do you have to be honest, but you also have to be honest often. Do just one or the other, or none at all, and you risk constructing your communication on shaky ground. Let me explain. Honesty is a must! Honesty is very bottom rung on … [Read more...]
If You’re Tired of Complaining to Your Spouse, Try These 3 Things Instead
We all have something to complain about: Too short, too big, inconsiderate, self-centered, you never cook, not enough money, never home, workaholic, drinks too much, plays video games too much, she spends too much money, he doesn't have a job, not enough sex, talks too much, doesn't communicate... I have found that having something to complain about is the easy part. … [Read more...]
Relationship 101: 8 Ways to Overcome Communication Challenges
[tps_header]Several years ago, I realized I needed to improve my communication skills. I was in a relationship with a man who was open and willing to communicate, however our styles were so different that we never fully understood one another. In order to move forward in the relationship, we decided to work on understanding one another and communicating more … [Read more...]
Communication in Marriage; What You Can Learn From Your GPS System
Great communication in a marriage is like a good GPS system. Driving directions are announced well before they need to happen. When you hear "prepare to turn right" you know you can put on your signal and smoothly prepare yourself, your vehicle and other passengers for the turn. Without that announcement, you're forced to cut people off & you may even cause an … [Read more...]