What couple hasn’t had an argument? All couples disagree. It’s natural. In fact, it is normal to have differing opinions from time to time. What’s not normal is fussing and cussing, going back and forth, and arguing till someone shuts down. Similarly, if you're not careful, instead of shutting down the argument, you can end up shutting down your spouse. So, let's reverse this. … [Read more...]
Don’t Stay Mad: How Couples Can Bounce Right Back After an Argument
One thing I've learned in my marriage is the importance of being able to bounce back after a disagreement. Getting back to happy with my hubby can be a bit of a struggle whenever I allow myself to dwell in the negative space of who was right and who was wrong. I can replay certain scenarios over and over again in my head just to find evidence of how my argument made the most … [Read more...]
The Real Reasons You and Your Spouse Continue to Fight Over the Same Old Thing
There are lessons to be learned in nearly every challenge we experience. But what you choose to do with those lessons is up to you. However, what I find in so many marriages is that couples are having the same disagreements over and over again because the lessons aren't quite landing and sticking as they should. It's frustrating to express what bothers you to your spouse, … [Read more...]
7 Things to Never Ever Say During an Argument With Your Spouse
I don’t think a couple exists who hasn’t ever had a disagreement. Couples quarrel about quite a number of things, including household chores and responsibilities and even finances. These arguments are sometimes petty but can also be serious in nature. If we’re not careful, a simple feud could easily escalate. While it’s normal to experience relationship conflict, how we handle … [Read more...]
3 Arguments You Should No Longer Have with Your Spouse
When two people argue, it's usually for a variety of reasons. It's either about someone trying to prove a point and convince the other to view a situation from their point of view. Or it might happen as a result of someone's bruised feelings and a need for a quick resolution. Disagreements can be quite challenging and occasionally blur our vision on what's actually right or … [Read more...]