I have heard time and time again that men and women tend to “let themselves go,” after getting married. Everyone has an opinion about why this happens and what it means to the quality of a marriage, and it’s really hard to determine how much it impacts a marriage. And the thing is, it can happen to the best of us. It creeps up without notice. I have to admit that I have … [Read more...]
Wives, 4 Things You Need to Own and Stop Blaming on Your Husbands
Okay, so in last week's article I told the fellas to stop blaming their wives for everything and making them the villain. The ladies were clapping and high fiving all the way to the end of the blog. A few even tagged their men (we see you,lol). But alas, as promised, I told the ladies I had one coming for them, too! Ladies, many of you also don't even notice how bad you make … [Read more...]
5 Surprising Signs That You’re Letting Yourself Go
As wives, we hear it all the time. Don’t let yourself go. We’re constantly fighting the battle against the frump and the baby fat. Sometimes we win, sometimes we lose, but how often do we step back and think to ourselves that we might be fighting against the wrong thing? As someone who has been on both sides of that battle, I find that a raggedy outside is usually a … [Read more...]
Have You “Let Yourself Go”
Months or maybe even years in and you are still in a state of marital bliss. You’ve finally found your groove a, groove in which “me” was replaced by “we” and everything was shared including the bed, the bathroom, and your spouse’s bowl of ice cream should you be so inclined. You got comfortable and caught up in the day to day responsibilities; those that come with having a … [Read more...]