Don’t be scared y’all but I’m gonna do something a little… different. Don’t freak out, just roll with me.
A girlfriend and I were chatting a few days ago about the connection between a person’s fashion sense and their intimate side and it got me thinking… What does your style say about your bedroom style? Are my neutral loving divas also beige in the bedroom? Does a bright and adventurous wardrobe hint at a frisky bedroom persona?
We know by now that your style of dress is an important factor in first impressions, but what else is your style saying about you?
Maybe there’s no connection at all and it’s just one of those things that make you go hmmm. I channeled my inner nerdy girl and did a little research on the topic of style & intimacy and here’s what I found:
Some psychologists suggest a link between a person’s favorite color and their sexual patterns. I won’t even get into what they said about my favorite color, but let’s just say I disagree.
In several articles, the color red was associated with having a strong or aggressive sexuality. Magenta (in the red family) is believed express sensuality.
Boring shoes = boring in the bedroom. When interviewed, some folks made the connection between the shoes on ones feet and their *ahem* bedroom prowess.
And this one is a given:
When you dress better, you feel more confident and confidence is sexy!
BMWK – So what say you? Does your wardrobe offer a glimpse into your bedroom character or is the whole idea a bunch of nonsense? Weigh in!
Featured Photo Credit: Katrina Brown
Gerald says
This must be for the minds of women…as I my sex game is so much better without clothing, lol. If my favorite color is ‘buck-naked’ and my style is ‘buck-wild’…maybe they do relate? LOL!
vangie BossLady says
Whoa …. this is a lil more accurate than I’m willing to admit :-/ I betta step my game up !!! I’m a very conservative dresser .. yikes !!!
Taheera Espinoza says
LOL BossLady! Your secret is safe with me 🙂
ada says
that may not necessarily be true. some women who dress ‘conservatively’ simply refuse to join trends of indecent exposure and ‘colour-blocking’. this does not mean that they are dull in their bedrooms and this is a fact. a friend’s older uncle once confided in her that his wife was nasty and handling her business perfectly in their bedroom. my friend’s mouth was opened for some seconds. this woman is a long skirt wearing, scarf tying person o
Rani says
Wow. Hmmm… well… this is embarrasing. Lol. Any response I give, will give me away. I plead the 5th. Lol.
Great topic. You have us all thinking now!
Taheera Espinoza says
Plead the 5th? Ha! Maybe it’s time to spice up your uh… wardrobe 🙂
Christine St. Vil says
Hmmm I’m not even going to get into how I feel about what it says about my favorite color, or I might give that away too. So I’m gonna go with what everyone else already said, and just um…leave it at that LOL Great topic for self-evaluation though 😉
Ianna Reign Stevenson says
Somehow your style will also reflect on the way you arrange your bedroom as well as the personality, but sometimes bedroom design also depend on the season or the person you are with. I just get married recently and try to find some bedroom designs that will be good for us and found this blog about some tips on having a bedroom for cuddle weather. Here’s the link I hope it can help https://uratex.com.ph/blog/5-ways-bedroom-ready-cuddle-weather/.