Looking to reconnect with your spouse? As spring draws near consider the new season a chance to try out some new things when it comes to your relationship. If you are married, perhaps now is the time to bring back some of the spontaneity that was likely present back when you were simply dating, before the challenges and responsibilities of life caused you to force fun to take a back seat more often than not. Recently, Essence highlighted 8 Sexy Surprises He’ll Love. These surprises can be initiated by wives who seek to surprise their husbands although they also appear to be surprises wives would also love to be on the receiving end of. Below are 2 surprises to consider:

1. Assign homework — Who says homework always has to be tedious? For the grown and married crowd homework might be just what you need to get things going between you and your spouse. According to Charli Penn of Essence, “call or text him and give him a little ‘love homework’ to bring home.” An idea might be a list of all all of his favorite places to kiss you. It is believed that the homework will build anticipation for later.
2. “Be His Secret Admirer” — Wear something he loves on you and surprise him for a lunch date! Make him feel as special as he makes you feel.

For 6 more ways to bring a little element of surprise into your relationship visit Essence.

BMWK — What are some ways you like to surprise your spouse?