What is that crazy woman’s problem? She just wants to nag nag nag… while all you hear is womp womp womp. I mean seriously, does she really think all of this talking is getting her anywhere? Ain’t nobody got time for that. She needs to give you your peace and let you be. The world does not revolve around her but she always wants talk at all the wrong times (while you’re trying to sleep, eat, watch TV, have sex, and anything else you enjoy). Why can’t she understand you don’t like to be bothered like that. What could possibly be causing this woman to never shut it up?
You aren’t really listening – When your woman starts talking she wants your attention. Not some of it but your full attention. By being pre-occupied by other things she may feel insulted, neglected, or less valued by whatever it is you deem too important to turn away from at that moment. When this is a consistent pattern of behavior it can really get under her skin and out of frustration she will talk your ear off until you give her what she wants. In many cases, if you would just properly acknowledge her and give her your attention then that would satisfy her needs and she would be willing to give you back your sanity.
You don’t do what you say – A woman wants to know she can count on you. That she can expect for you to keep your word and handle business when needed. Every time you tell her you’re going to “take care of it” and you don’t; well you have just opened the door to her nagging the crap out of you next chance she gets. Your inability to take action makes it hard for her to trust your words and sit by patiently for you to finally do it. Instead, it allows her to validate in her mind that she needs to constantly remind you or it will never be done. Learn how to back up your talk with actions. Being more consistent in that regard will go a long way towards bringing you and her more peace of mind.
There are unresolved issues – In some instances you may feel that you’re doing what you’re supposed to do. That you are listening and have made every effort to always keep your word. Yet you still find yourself feeling overwhelmed because your woman continues to come at you in a negative manner. Chances are, a deeper issue exists that isn’t being properly addressed. You may have done something to her previously that hurt her. Maybe it has nothing to do with you but outside factors have put her in a bad place. One way or another she isn’t happy and she is taking her frustration out on you. Don’t feed into the negativity. Don’t dismiss her as “crazy” and attempt to ignore her and her behavior. Take a positive approach to trying to uncover the issue and addressing it with her. Don’t fight fire with fire, fight it with love and you will see much better results. Always consider how you may be contributing to the issue.
Take a moment to self evaluate and embrace improving in areas that may be having a negative impact on your relationship. Effective communication is always needed to move things in a better direction. None of us are perfect but as men we should always strive to be better and set an example of the positive approach and behavior needed in all of our relationships.
Wow, so as usual it falls on the men right? lol Lord help us!!! I will do my best!
The article isn’t saying it all falls on the men Darell. It is simply pointing out what is contributing to the issue. What men can be mindful of to help stop the nagging from occurring. I have a separate article that points out that the women have to be mindful of their approach and how they talk to their partner, but we all have to be willing to accept what we can do better in any negative situation.
Another reason women keep talking is because she’s trying to give him the benefit of the doubt in search of a reason to stay. When a women who has been talking a lot gets quiet that’s when a man really has a problem.
Amen, that’s it really u r hoping he will say something 2 reassure u.
But is it really a problem when she stops talking? Maybe…Just maybe, HE’S at his breaking point and he’s stopped talking for the same reason you’re saying that she may stop talking? It’s always prudent to look at both sides of the coin and often, people tend to allow a paradox in a situation that is addressing one issue.
This article is a Mack, a brother trying to sound sensitive in order to impress woman. Woman nag because they want men to do for them what they aren’t willing or able to do for themselves. In comparison men don’t nag because when we want something we go get it or do without. Woman want men to cut the grass, change the oil, and fix stuff around the house. All of these things a woman is fully capable of doing but for some reason she won’t and so she nags. Rather than cut the grass she nags. Rather than take out the trash she nags. Even if she gets hone first she waits until he cones home and nags him. Even if she is a stay at home wife she nags.
It’s never about trying to sound sensitive. It’s about making people aware of how they may be contributing to an issue and what they can do on their end to help make things better. A person can choose to ignore their partner, dismiss their requests and label it being lazy, or whatever else they choose to do. Just don’t expect much good to come out of it, and they shouldn’t be surprised when they are unable to create a positive environment that allows the relationship to grow and be successful.
Very well put Steven!
Uh sir you sound wack!
That’s absolutely a negative I am woman zbd all the things you mention I do for my self so that’s not true
The people who are providing negative responses here are probably single and have had a series of failed relationships – but they wonder why. Hey Stephan, this is reasonable advice and those who want to make their relationships better (rather than be childish and figure out who to blame) will benefit from this. Thanks.
“All of old. Nothing else ever. Ever tried. Ever failed. No matetr. Try again. Fail again. Fail better.” Samuel Beckett
This is true true true! Love these articles!
WHAT A BUNCH OF CRAP ! ALL OF MY WIFE”S SISTERS NAG THE DEVIL OUT OF THEIR HUSBANDS FOR
NO REASON WHATSOEVER.
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