When two people argue, it's usually for a variety of reasons. It's either about someone trying to prove a point and convince the other to view a situation from their point of view. Or it might happen as a result of someone's bruised feelings and a need for a quick resolution. Disagreements can be quite challenging and occasionally blur our vision on what's actually right or … [Read more...]
Conflict Resolution; 3 Reasons Why She May Be Nagging You
What is that crazy woman's problem? She just wants to nag nag nag... while all you hear is womp womp womp. I mean seriously, does she really think all of this talking is getting her anywhere? Ain't nobody got time for that. She needs to give you your peace and let you be. The world does not revolve around her but she always wants talk at all the wrong times (while you're trying … [Read more...]
Don’t Weaken Your Marriage Over Some B.S.
Yes, petty thoughts, actions and ideas can ruin a marriage. It may not always seem like a big deal while we're going through it, but over time the smallest things can actually cause the biggest challenges. Marriage requires everyday effort and we have to do our part by controlling our mouth, doing what leads to peace and eliminating that which does not. There are certain ideas … [Read more...]
Not Wrong or Right…..Just Different!
LIGHT BULB I figured it out! Yup, the other day I had an epiphany and I think this epiphany could change the world. Are you ready to find out what it is yet?? Okay well since you twisted my arm here it is….now listen closely. It’s not that men are wrong or women are right, the fact is that we’re just different! Yup yup! It took me all these years to figure out that many times … [Read more...]
What Did You Say about My Mama: 8 Tips on How to Fight Fairly
It seems that no matter how long you have been married, talking about each other's family is still a tricky situation that should be handled delicately. And, should never be done while you are arguing. Rabbi Shmuley, a relationship expert that was often seen on the Oprah Show, says one way to fight fairly is to never bring your spouses family into an argument. "Marriage is … [Read more...]
6 Tips on How to Talk about Serious Issues with Your Spouse
by Amy Morin When you need to have a serious talk with your spouse, it can be difficult to find the right time, the right place, and the right way to say it. Blurting out “I don’t want your mother to stay with us for a month after the baby is born,” right before you head off to work isn’t likely to be helpful. Instead, it’s important to carefully think about what you want … [Read more...]
What Is The Silver Lining in Your Current Relationship Struggle?
I am always hopeful when a couple contacts me with the expectation of improving or saving their relationship. In that moment, neither of them are able to feel or sense the optimism that I see because they are right in the middle of the storm. Contacting a relationship professional is no easy task for a couple. It requires courage. Knowing that they will have to be completely … [Read more...]
I Know You Don’t Want to Hear This, Guess What, Sometimes You’re Going to Have to Give In
There are some who struggle with the idea of being wrong or having to apologize. There are others who are stubborn as mules and will stand firm in their belief whether it's right or wrong. Even in a committed partnership, with the person they love, some people are simply not willing to "give in". They will stand their ground and fight, even when the fight isn't justified or … [Read more...]