4. You should try to engage in at least 3 different positions.
Keep your sex life spicy by trying out different positions. Our dear friends gave us this amazing tip from their sex life: they engage in a minimum of 3 positions each time they are intimate and then afterwards have pillow talk about their time together. Wow!
5. The Only Limits Should be the Limits You Set
The question is always asked, “What is okay, and what is not okay in the bedroom?” The answer to that question is between you and your spouse. There isn’t a one size fits all for what you can and can’t do in your sex life. As long as you and your spouse both agree upon it and it brings you closer together then have fun!
Let me caution you, however, that as believers we must stay away from biblically offensive acts such as pornography or extra persons.
Oral sex, various positions, and whatever else you may question to try in your sex life should be discussed with your spouse to determine if its something you want to incorporate. Just remember that sex is about serving one another at the highest level, so enjoy one another no matter how you do it.
6. Be Creative to Eliminate Sex From Getting Mundane
Have fun with your sex life.
You’re going to have to get creative in order to keep or bring the spice. Rolling over and having sex is going to get boring after awhile.
Being creative can be a shared and rotated responsibility.
One night the wife might be in charge and the next her husband can flex his creative muscles.
7. Discuss Your Sexual Needs With Your Spouse
Communication is the key element for a great sex life. It is said that a great sex life is like wine; it gets better the older it gets.
You must be committed to making your sex life one of the best parts of your marriage. It will not happen automatically. Discuss your needs, what requires improvement, or how you can better serve each other.
These are all keys to remain focused on each other and no one else. In the end you will happier, healthier, and having more sex! But you won’t hear that in church!
BMWK, which secret above is your favorite? Let me know!
So true!!! Nowadays, I rarely hear about any topics related to sex.
thx dia for tackling on this topic. how i wish u wld talk more and more about it. sex is good and it releaves stress, sex calms down an angry woman especialy here in africa. good and climaxed sex shapens the brain,etc. therefore fellow women, lets earnestly pray 2 God 2 make us “ever ready” for our hubbies as many times as they demand so as not 2 push them away 2 “other ready ones”
This was a well written piece pastor. Going over to your Marriedandyoung.com site!
What can hinder to enjoy those moments with her husband if everything is fixed and settled,meaning other than normal household conflicts nothing else shadowed the relationship?
Great article!! As believers, Christ has set us free, that includes freedom in the bedroom. I wish more pastors talked about the fun & pure enjoyment of sex in marriage. Thank you for sharing.
I am presently contemplating the ordained ministry and understand how important marriage is, in building strong families and happy lives.
We need to discuss sex, intimacy as being natural, after all it is God who created everything. Discussion, discussion will engender love. Understanding of the human body (biology is also key).
Love love , relationships and marriage, I married and no longer want to be, just want to live life
I’m Anonymous, August 22 2015@11:03pm
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