SECRET #8 – MAINTAIN AN ELEMENT OF SURPRISE
No matter how “seasoned” your marriage may be, always maintain an element of surprise. Astound yourself by discovering a new facet of your spouse and similarly surprise them occasionally with something they did not know about you.
Barak Obama said in a 1996 interview:
Even if one builds a life together based on trust, attentiveness and mutual support, I think that it’s important that a partner continues to surprise.