Tyler Perry's widely acclaimed Why Did I Get Married? films took a well known, but cloaked truth, and made it front and center. Marriage takes work. If you're married, you know it and I know it. So every 365 days, that work is worthy of a great reward, a celebration. The day you pledged to spend your life together is an occasion worthy of acknowledgement, renewal, and … [Read more...]
10 Out of the Box Ways to Celebrate Your Anniversary
My Husband isn't a big fan of celebrating his birthday (must be a man thing cuz I love celebrating my 29th birthday every year!) But on our anniversary, I know we can go all out. Every year, my goal is for us to experience something special and that we've never done before. Now, I'm not jumping out of any planes (no shade if that's your thing) but I've found a few fun and … [Read more...]
After Nine Years of Marriage, I’m Finally Ready to be Married
After nine years of marriage, I don’t know if I’ve learned a whole lot. I knew it was going to be difficult. I knew it would be a challenge. I also knew it had the potential to be one of the greatest experiences of my life. As a kid, I didn’t really have a decent example of marital bliss since I was raised primarily by my single father. He always made sure we had a maternal … [Read more...]
The 6 Essential Things That Have Gotten My Parents to 47 Years of Marriage
November 19, 2013 marks 47 years since my parents said "I Do". They are almost at 50 years! Whew! That is a long time. I used to think there's no way they could still be in love after all this time (LOL), but I have to say they are more in love now than ever before. After seven kids, twelve grandkids and one great-grandchild, they still understand the meaning of true love. … [Read more...]
Do Something Different – 5 Unique Anniversary Ideas
Do you have an approaching anniversary and want to celebrate in a different way? Are you bored with the same anniversary routine? Is this your first anniversary and you want it to be memorable? I have compiled a list of some unique ideas to make your anniversary unforgettable. [imagebrowser id=113] BMWK - If you cannot get a babysitter or you want to celebrate with your … [Read more...]
The Perfect Gift for Your Spouse
Are you struggling with exactly the right gift to buy your spouse? You're not alone. I'm pretty sure a lot of us fall in that category, but should it really be that way? If we are really paying attention to our mates, we would already know from living with them, connecting with them and really observing them what they want. Or, better yet what they need. We should know what … [Read more...]
5 Ways Michelle Obama Took “Supporting Your Spouse’s Career” To The Next Level
Last night's Presidential Debate, nor the results, were ideal for the Obama family. Much of the post debate feedback was in favor of Barack Obama's opponent, Mitt Romney. Aside from that, it was the Obama's 20th wedding anniversary. Can you imagine celebrating your 20th anniversary on a "double date" with the couple who is trying to go "Donald Trump", and fire your … [Read more...]
7 Things I Want in My Marriage That My Parents Have After 48 Years
Last week I shared something on my Facebook page that amazed and inspired me. Something I hope all married couples get to experience. What is this that has me so amazed and inspired? My parents' 48th wedding anniversary! Their marriage has accomplished what we all desire in marriage, by beating the odds and statistics of failed marriages. It was a blessing to grow up … [Read more...]
A Letter To My Engaged Self
We saw this awesome letter over at BlackBridalBliss.com and had to share it with you. Rasheeda and Cory tied the knot in early 2011 and are celebrating their one-year anniversary this week. Rasheeda took the time to write a beautiful letter to her engaged self to let her know what she's about to step into: Dear Engaged Self, First things first, YOU DID IT! You crossed … [Read more...]
Happy Anniversary To The Obamas!
The Obamas are celebrating their 19th wedding anniversary today. Now two kids and the title of Commander-in-Chief later, the twosome are still showing us that true love might have up and downs, but the end is totally worth it. Check out this interview with Michelle Obama from earlier in the year on how romantic President Obama is: … [Read more...]
First Year of Marriage: A Reflection
On July 11, my hubby and I celebrated our first year as husband and wife. A joyous celebration it was, complete with the most beautiful gift I have ever received, relishing the goodness that was the top layer of our wedding cake, watching our wedding video and reliving wedding day memories that will last forever. I love my husband tremendously. Which is why I love Beyonce's … [Read more...]
VIDEO: Michigan Couple Celebrates 73 Years of Marriage
Some of us dream of making it to 73, let alone having a marriage last that long. This Michigan couple, Manuel and Dorothy Thomas, attribute their long-lasting marriage to looking out for each other, and having a sense of togetherness above all else. Check out the quick video for a moving look at a family that is sure to make you smile. … [Read more...]
Guest Post: “Let’s Try To Live Until We’re At Least 94, Kay?
We've got something special for you today BMWK family. A guest post by fellow blogger Jelisa who blogs over at ...And They Lived Blogging Ever After. If you like what you see here please take a second to visit her site. I think you'll enjoy what you find. This morning, the first thing I said to Galen when he opened his eyes was, "Let's try to live until we're at least 94, … [Read more...]
MSN: 23 Ways to Celebrate Your Marriage PT I
Caught an article on MSN about 23 Ways to Celebrate Your Marriage. We're going to run the first half today and the second portion tomorrow. Titles are below, for details click on the link for the full article. 1. Tell him you love him 2. Talk about the future 3. Give "just-because" gifts 4. Keep a sex diary 5. Take the "happy" challenge 6. Toast each … [Read more...]