Do you dread dating because you can't figure out why men lose interest after the first date? Do you wonder why these guys come on strong when they first meet you and then flake when they say they'll call you again? Are you confused and wonder if you're "The First Date Queen" who can't get into a relationship because you're just not attractive enough? If you answered yes to … [Read more...]
If Bae Don’t Pray, Why Can’t He Stay? Reasons Why You SHOULD Consider Dating a Man Who Doesn’t Go to Church
There's a really popular saying directed at Christian singles: "If bae don't pray, bae can't stay!" You'll hear preachers shout it at Christian conferences and see it worn by women on cute v-neck t-shirts. The message behind this mantra can be summed up like this: A man may be interested in you. He may be professional, handsome and respectful. But if he doesn't show you he … [Read more...]
How One Date Showed Me I Really Wasn’t Ready to Date Again
Have you ever prayed for something to happen and didn’t expect it to be answered so quickly? Many times God gives us exactly what we ask for…to teach us something. I remember praying to God to go on a date, and He answered my prayer pretty much immediately. It was a casual prayer, a quick conversation with the Lord to let Him know how I was feeling and before I knew it, I was … [Read more...]
Single Ladies: 3 Signs You’re Too Hard on Men
Ladies, has anyone ever told you that you may be too picky when it comes to men? How about over critical or hard on the guys who try to get to know you better? I have. But instead of taking offense, I saw it as an opportunity to evaluate my actions toward guys and extend a little more grace. But how can you balance both grace and discernment? For help on finding that … [Read more...]
Singles: The One Thing You Should Be Looking for in a Potential Mate and It’s Not “Potential”
For the single who’s sincere about dating, courting, and marrying a suitable partner, the temptation to date someone who has “potential” comes up every now and then. For example, a potential partner is someone who may have 8 out of 10 things on your list of desired qualities in a mate. However, those last two traits may be vital. Related: 4 Annoying traits that could be … [Read more...]
Jesus Is Not Your Man: 3 Myths That Keep Christian Singles Stuck
"That's ok. Jesus is my spiritual husband." This sister's comments stopped the Bishop dead in his tracks. He had just finished teaching a series on marriage and I guess the single woman was feeling left out, so she made a statement that so many of us in the church have been taught through the years. However, the Bishop turned around and went back to the pulpit and said, … [Read more...]
3 Negative Attitudes that will Keep you Single When You Don’t Want to Be
Are you speaking life over your dating & relationship experiences? If you're single & you're saying one of these common phrases, you could be blocking your Boaz from showing up! I have to warn you. I'm about to share truth with you that could set you free. But it might make you mad at first. I promise, however, that if you stay with me, you'll get clarity on dating … [Read more...]
The Top 3 Ways to Get High Quality Men to Approach You (Advice from a Matchmaker)
If he were interested in you, he'd approach you, right? Wrong! Men don't always think like that, sisters! If you've been confused or frustrated by the fact that high-quality men don't initiate conversations with you, let me help a sister out and share 3 tantalizing tips that will turn you into a man magnet and have men approaching you everywhere you go. 1. Your body … [Read more...]
Confessions of Church Players: What Sisters Can Do to Protect Themselves
"Adam & Eve weren't married, " he said. I was dumbfounded. I couldn't believe my boyfriend, a minister in training, was trying to convince me to sleep with him prior to marriage by using Bible characters. When I persisted in saying no, he told me my desire to abstain was a "good goal," but wasn't realistic. This man wasn't the only "church player" I dated prior to … [Read more...]