As promised on last night's weekly Twitter #Marriagechat (every Wednesday at 9PM EST) over the next few days we're going to provide you with some resources that will repair and strengthen your marriage. We're starting off the series by sharing some of our favorite marriage books. BOOKS: The 5 Love Languages by Gary Chapman Description: Marriage should be based on … [Read more...]
African-American Pastors Issue A “Call to Action†To Combat Declining Marriage Rates And Fatherlessness
By Edward C. Lee The African American church has long been the launching pad for lasting social, political and economic change in and for the African American community. From the days of slavery on through the Civil Rights movement, the church has been the most consistent voice of change and hope of unity to address concerns facing our community. It was announced last … [Read more...]
His View/Her View: Is There A War Against African American Families?
Last week, a controversial billboard was placed in New York City, setting off a national firestorm and debate about abortion in the African American community. Why are our abortion rates higher than other groups? Why would the pro-life group place the billboard in that particular communty? It raises a lot of questions. We have Edward C. Lee and Gwen Jimmere ready to extend … [Read more...]
Defining Your Love to the One You Love
By Edward C. Lee This time of year, especially this Valentine's weekend there is going to be a lot of, "I Love You's" floating around in the air. What a great time to be married, and "in love"! In conjunction with the flowers, candy, the romantic weekend getaways, and grown up stuff amongst married folks, etc...Valentine's Day is also a good time to celebrate and examine … [Read more...]
Where Do Arguments Come From?
By Edward Lee Have you ever had the experience where all is well, the birds are chirping, the sun is shining, she loves you, you love her, everyone is goo goo eyes - then BLAM (yes, like the old Batman show) you are in a heated argument? I need to know BMWK, where do arguments come from? As you have probably guessed I am writing from recent familiarity. We were fully … [Read more...]
Faith of Our President… a Man, a Husband, a Leader
By Edward Lee I am still processing the depth of the remarks that the President of all of the citizens of the United States of America made this week at the National Prayer Breakfast. Whether one likes him politically or agrees with his public confession of "Jesus Christ as my Lord and Savior" in his speech, there is a tremendous benefit to all when the leader's position is … [Read more...]
The Other Side of the Ted Williams Story: The Affected Spouse
By Edward C. Lee A few months ago, while researching an upcoming project of every marriage in the Bible, I wrote about "The Affected Spouse." The idea was that decisions and actions of one spouse often adversely impact their husband or wife. It was based on the biblical story of David (the David that killed Goliath the giant) and Bathsheba's adulterous affair and the … [Read more...]
Sick and Tired of Being Sick and Tired: 4 Ways to Avoid a Mid-Marriage Crisis
By Edward Lee Recently I was at For Sister's Only (FSO) in DC. The reported attendance was over 20,000 - of course most were women. It felt like I must have spoken to at least half of them about their marriage or relationships. And there seemed to be a recurring theme in these conversations with both married and single women that still is "impacting" me. A large number … [Read more...]
Head of Household
This is the first post of many from new BMWK contributor Edward C. Lee. Please welcome him in the comments section. By Edward C. Lee The generally accepted definition of "Head of Household" as the IRS sees it is the person that earns more than half of the income in the household. I fully understand both the meaning and intention of the IRS's designation and definition. … [Read more...]