My goals for my marriage are pretty simple. I want a home where love and peace are overflowing and I desire a marriage built on love, trust, honor, and commitment. In order for each of those ideals to exist, I have to check my attitude, make sacrifices, and practice effective communication. In knowing what I want for marriage, I must also be aware of what I don’t … [Read more...]
5 Best Practices for Beating the Marriage Blues
Into every life a little rain must fall. We know life continues to bring a series of ups and downs. We’re often in and out of our season. It’s a reality we all must be willing to accept. Marriage isn’t any different. There will be excellent days. You know the ones where your spouse can do no wrong and you are just really feeling him/her. Then there will be those moments where … [Read more...]
5 Reasons Couples Divorce and How You Can Protect Your Marriage
It breaks my heart whenever I witness or hear about a couple experiencing turmoil. My primary focus as a relationship professional is to reach couples before they arrive at the decision to separate. I have a friend who often jokes that my work should only focus on those couples who are happy in love because they actually still care about their relationship and are willing to do … [Read more...]
How to Be a Better Spouse in Just 20 Seconds
Yes, 20 seconds. Allow me to explain. I know there is always some sort of pressure any time we’re asked to do something in just seconds. But there are several things a person can accomplish in 30, 25 and yes, even 20 seconds. For example, did you know you can brighten someone else’s day in just 20 seconds? Sharing a friendly smile or even a warm greeting will do the trick. You … [Read more...]