I am constantly hearing people say “marriage is hard.” And although I agree with the sentiment, I think it paints a picture that marriage is all about surviving the struggle. I don’t know about you, but I didn’t get married just to survive a constant struggle. I could survive a struggle all on my own. So why do some people focus on the hard parts, neglecting to share the … [Read more...]
3 Super Fun Steps to Renew Your Marriage That You’ll Both Enjoy
We all know what happens when we fail to take care of something we love. It begins to change—no longer fresh or as strong as it once was. Whether it’s your hair, your body, your home or your marriage, failing to care for what matters most has negative consequences. And the lack of care doesn’t just happen overnight, nor is it always intentional. It’s something that builds up … [Read more...]
These 4 ‘Selfish’ Acts Healed My Marriage and They Can Heal Yours Too
I don’t think there’s anything that can prepare you for marriage, and, as hard as it’s been for my husband and me to navigate, it’s also been the absolute best thing for me as a woman. My husband and I have been married for just over ten years now, and, just like any other marriage, it’s had its ups and downs. But about five years into our marriage, a light bulb went off in … [Read more...]
3 Things I Don’t Need from My Husband (and Why It Makes Our Marriage Work)
I make it my business to make my husband feel needed. I think it’s important for the people you love to know that you need them. I know that being needed by those I love matters to me. It matters to most of us. Wanting to feel needed is truly just a part of the human experience. That said, I definitely don’t need my husband for everything. I think need has it’s place and … [Read more...]
6 Ideas to Say “YES” to In Your Marriage
I still remember the day my husband proposed. I was saying yes, through tears, before he had even fully asked the question. I knew what I wanted, so there wasn’t any hesitation. When it’s right, it’s right. The truth is, what I wanted then hasn’t changed all that much. In addition to being in love, my desire is to be happy, have joy and live in peace in my home. None of that … [Read more...]
Would You Marry You?
Some married folks are quick to complain about the flaws of their spouse. For some odd reason many of us think we're perfect. It's difficult to recognize our own errors, but easy to point out those of others. Go figure. When I was a young single I had this image of the perfect spouse. A mate who catered to my every need with limited flaws seemed ideal. Unrealistic, I know. … [Read more...]