I didn't see it coming. Then again, maybe I did. I could feel my fiancé pulling away, but I thought it was due to some issues he was having with his new job. He didn't communicate with me about it, so I thought I'd give him some space, while at the same time, reassure him that I'd always be there for him. Weeks later, he came over and asked me to go for a walk with him. When … [Read more...]
A Step by Step Guide to Ending a Toxic Relationship
Are you really still messing around with that guy? The one who cheated, lied and still refuses to commit? Girl, I have to tell you the truth: You can do better. Let me show you how to stop dating the wrong men so you can attract a mate who will marry you. Step 1: Own your worth It hurts me to see you hanging on to a man who is mistreating you. He's feeding you crumbs when you … [Read more...]
Single Ladies: 4 Specific Expressions We Tell Ourselves When He Stops Calling and How You Really Should Respond
No one wants to find out that someone they are interested in is no longer into them. Breakups, falling out, etc. can hurt the heart. Unfortunately the emotional wounds can occur from the "getting to know you" stage all the way up to committed relationships. When a man stops calling you, you have several ways to respond. Some I’ve been through and perhaps you can relate: “I … [Read more...]
Finding Closure after “It’s over” by Letting God Take the Reins
Walking around with heaviness from having not fully addressing my break up in a matured way, the Holy Spirit prepared me to speak to my ex. I got a heads up in my spirit about him contacting me and shortly afterwards I received an email from him asking to meet up with me later on that week. I was nervous and yet thankful, because in that moment I believed that God was giving me … [Read more...]
Don’t Let Breakups Break You
I remember when I had a "growing pain" moment a few years ago. My dad came by the house to see how I was doing and it was hard for me to admit that I was in need. I needed gas money for the week and didn't really want to ask him for that, but eventually I told him about it. My dad told me: "I like it when you ask me to help you, you're my daughter." What he said resonated with … [Read more...]
4 Reasons Why We Love Mr. or Ms. Wrong
Guys and ladies have both been hit with the epidemic of falling for the bad woman or the bad guy. Something about their mysteriousness, their attitude, swagger, and overall coolness made us swoon or find them attractive. That may have been okay for one time, but if you find yourself consistently going for the no-good smooth-talker, the gold digger, or the church-on-Sundays, … [Read more...]