True story… James and Melissa (Mel) were in year 0 of their marriage. They had only been married a few months. One issue they had to deal with was how James was going to handle women from his past—many whom Mel knew and many with whom he was still in communication with because they all moved in the same circles. After much discussion (mostly James trying to explain why … [Read more...]
Men: These 3 Moldable Character Traits Will Help You Effectively Change Your Life and Lead Your Home
Men sometimes struggle with leadership in the home because of all of the complexities of a household. Things ranging from blended families, to finances, to career decisions are among the complex issues that need an insightful committee chair and responsible decision maker. As a coach, I study what good leaders in business bring to the table, because I think it translates … [Read more...]
If God Really Told You to Lead Her, Then Here Are 2 Critical Things You Must Know How to Do
I am really intrigued with this one. When I first heard the story that Seattle Seahawks’ quarterback, Russell Wilson, has a new girlfriend, singer Ciara, it didn’t register a blip on my radar of care or concern. Then when I heard they were trying not to have sex, I was like, “Why put that out there…so if you end up having sex, then the whole world is going to judge … [Read more...]
The Most Important Characteristic in a Great Spouse
Growing up watching war movies with my dad was the highlight of our relationship. I remember like it was yesterday when we went to the movies to see "Saving Private Ryan". That wasn’t my favorite in comparison, to Braveheart with Mel Gibson. These movies illustrated what a leader looks like. Strong. Resilient. Brave. Courageous. Fearless. Victorious. I went from those movies … [Read more...]
3 Ways You Can Have a Ride Or Die Wife
All ride or die wives want a husband that will also be there through thick and thin. Wives want a husband that will be supportive and loving. A wife doesn’t have a problem with her husband taking his place as spiritual leader in the household if she knows who his spiritual leader is. So if husbands want a ride or die wife, below are some things they need to know. 1. You … [Read more...]
32 Ways to be The Spiritual Leader of Your Family
For many men there can be a level of anxiety that always is present when it comes to leading our family. That anxiety typically revolves around either not having a father as a role model or not having a good role model to pattern themselves around. So how does a man lead what he has never seen before? Tough question, and I don't know that anyone can really stand as an expert … [Read more...]