A few weeks ago I spoke on a panel addressing dating, relationships, and all of the craziness that comes along with love. I thought I was prepared to address every possible question, but when someone asked me what were the things I wish I knew before I got engaged, it took me a moment to gather my thoughts. I hadn't thought about that before, but there were a plethora of things … [Read more...]
LOVE HACKS: 3 Simple Tips that Will Help You Love Your Married Life
By: Vanessa Thorpe A couple of days ago, my husband texted me five little words that melted my heart. They served as confirmation that we were doing something right. “I love our life together. That is all the text said. I do not know what sparked him to send the text, but I am so glad to be reassured that our marriage is solidified with the mutual satisfaction of our … [Read more...]
Slay for Bae: 7 Quick and Easy Tips on How to Remain His Eye Candy
What happens when your look no longer matches his vision? And before I get started, let’s just be clear that this can go in either direction. Your husband’s physical appearance may no longer match the vision you had for the man of your dreams either. So let’s talk about reality for a minute. When you first got married you were both looking good every time you stepped out … [Read more...]
9 Damaging Habits to Give Up NOW for the Sake of Your Marriage
During the beginning of my marriage, it was pretty hard for my husband to get a read on how I was feeling at times. He would ask me what was wrong, and I would look him right in the eyes and say, “nothing.” I knew darn well that was a lie, but I got into the habit of doing it pretty often. One day, my husband expressed how annoying this habit was and how saying “nothing” … [Read more...]
Here Are 5 Good Reasons to Stay in Your Marriage
Some things in life are worth fighting for, while others just aren’t. The decision about whether or not you should fight for something can be an easy one, but that usually isn’t the case. Usually, making that decision is tough. There’s often a lot to consider, and it can be hard to differentiate between what seems easiest and what’s actually best. So what do you do when the … [Read more...]
What Marriage Feels Like for Women
I appreciate status updates on Facebook from women who love being married. The photos of them and their husband warms my heart. Anniversary announcements and birthday messages are usually all filled with memories of what makes their love so unique. It’s apparent just how much their spouse matters. Although marriage isn’t always effortless, these women still recognize it’s worth … [Read more...]
5 Tips to Help Couples Ease the ‘Daily Grind’ of Married Life
by Martine Jolicoeur So often I hear women talk about the fact that their husbands do not help around the house and are oblivious to what they do. Today I would like to submit to you that although I do not live with Mr. Perfect, I do recognize his positive traits and it makes a difference. Far from trying to bash my ladies, (because I am one!), I feel that it is important … [Read more...]
Confessions of a Good Wife: Tales of Being Married to a Penny Pincher
Does anyone remember Julius (Chris Rock's father) from the sitcom "Everybody Hates Chris"? His father was notorious for saving money at all costs and feelings of his family. We laughed as Julius accounted for all of the money he spent — down to a penny. We laughed as he imposed hilarious rules on his family in an effort to save money, much to the dismay of his … [Read more...]
Do You Give Your Spouse Chores?
My husband and I try to run our house like a well oiled machine. We believe that all of our children (regardless of age) have a part in maintaining the house. And if they do their part, then everyone's life is much easier. To help make everyone accountable, we've implemented a chore checklist for everyone from the smallest child (two years old) to the oldest child (twelve … [Read more...]