For the past several weeks on BET's Being Mary Jane, viewers watched Mary Jane Paul put on a brave front as she faced betrayal, a near death accident, extortion, almost losing her job and the death of a dear friend. Her anxiety and loneliness could no longer be contained and Mary Jane reached out to her “friend with benefits,” Brandon. After carrying the weight of the world … [Read more...]
What Will Your Relationship Check-Up Reveal? Run with It or Drop It Like It’s Hot?
Like many, I used to be caught up in all things Scandal. Weekly, I watched the lives of Olivia Pope, Fitz (Fitzgerald) Grant and Jake Ballard intertwine in a twisted love triangle. However, as of late, I have been intrigued to see how Shonda Rhimes would have the adulterous private relationship between Oliva and Fitz, play out in public.What ramifications, if any, they would … [Read more...]
Should I Marry a God-fearing Man Who is Financially Unstable?
Dear Dr. Buckingham, I have been saved and walking with the Lord for about three years now. Last year, I was blessed with the opportunity to begin my career in another state. There was a man at my church home who I was attracted to; however he never approached me or expressed interest in me. Because I was leaving, I decided to pursue a casual sexual relationship with him. I … [Read more...]
My Inconsiderate Boyfriend Proposed; Should I Leave or Stay?
Dear Dr. Buckingham, I have been in an off/on long distance relationship with my boyfriend for about 4 years now. I don't feel that he respects my time or gives me the adequate attention to make our relationship work. At the moment, we just rekindled, but he is back to his old habit which I absolutely detest. He would promise to call and won't do so in the timeframe he … [Read more...]
Your Side, Your Spouse’s Side and The Truth
There are always three sides to every story and/or situation. This is especially true for relationships. In times of challenge, most individuals are only able to see and focus on their own concerns. It’s difficult to see things from a different perspective when we’re caught up in our emotions. Our perception of the trial we’re experiencing is somewhat distorted and clouded … [Read more...]